Hi im new to this and I had a few questions?

[Bratty_batty06]

So ive became pretty interested in puppyplay and pet regression alot more lately, im already an age regressor so that isn't new to me at all, but I don't really know how to go about anything, im also a little worried my partner would find it weird(i doubt they would but i have really bad anxiety). Ive done a little research but ive mostly seen guys and not many girls (I may not be looking in the right places) im not really into the hoods mostly because sensory issues. So does anyone know of anything that could help? Or places where I could do more research? I may work up the courage to tell my partner but I dont want to go into this blind 😊

[Ca****]

I'm no puppy or pet myself, so I can't really name anything. But I know a lot of people and seen a lot of things, and yes, most puppies are male (which doesn't mean you can't talk to them of course), generally for questions social media is good (lots of content creators on that topic and many have healthy advice and ideas on the topic) or online chatrooms (Discord servers, Reddit, etc., again, I sadly don't have names), that can be onesbthat are not kust for that as well, ofc. And for actually getting to know people andnpossibly meeting or talking to longterm definitely the latter, so chatrooms on the topic.

[Sl****]

PS: I don’t get what you mean by the hoods. But anyway Fetlife is pretty good about posts but the rant that I found speaks volumes and I get the concerns that you have. Be anxious but also I hope that you find your voice to live your truth. Share oxygen with people who value your presence and don’t see your cravings as a kink, but as your your world. You should demand that every part of what makes you happy - especially in today’s times- must always be celebrated rather than devalued or minimized. There’s nothing more freeing than being encouraged to do and be whatever and whoever you want. Life’s too short for people to cancel or criticize what makes you happy. I’ve never heard of regressing but I want to learn such dynamics because I never know who might need my presence, empathy and unconditional support. At any rate hopefully you can connect with PadlockPuppy and network.

All I want is for people to find the path that they love. I wish everyone would advocate for the same thing.

[Co****]

Do what makes you comfortable and go at your own pace. Simple as that

[bu****]

It just takes time and patience but you got this

[Su****]

Start small, just let those ***istic instincts out a little at a time. Start my what feels right, whether it's cuddling or even nibbling on your partner. Then, slowly let it show more. Wag your tail a little, paw at them, let yourself slowly fall into that pet space.

From my experience if you're unsure it's best to let your mind relax and your instincts take over a little at a time into you feel comfortable. Your partner will adapt, and honestly they will probably enjoy it more than you think.

You don't need to wear anything for pet play until you get comfortable, then you can add a tail and ears if you want, but it's definitely not a requirement. Personally I have specific collars and stuff I wear because it makes me feel more grounded in that space, but I didn't start there. You can try if you want to, but feeling comfortable first is key, no matter what it looks like.

[Su****]

Just now, SubPuppy_ said:

Start small, just let those ***istic instincts out a little at a time. Start my what feels right, whether it's cuddling or even nibbling on your partner. Then, slowly let it show more. Wag your tail a little, paw at them, let yourself slowly fall into that pet space.

From my experience if you're unsure it's best to let your mind relax and your instincts take over a little at a time into you feel comfortable. Your partner will adapt, and honestly they will probably enjoy it more than you think.

You don't need to wear anything for pet play until you get comfortable, then you can add a tail and ears if you want, but it's definitely not a requirement. Personally I have specific collars and stuff I wear because it makes me feel more grounded in that space, but I didn't start there. You can try if you want to, but feeling comfortable first is key, no matter what it looks like.

*A n i m a l instincts. Did not realize that was a flagged word.