Pussy Licking

[DirtyDaddyx]

I was recently in a conversation with a young lady and the topic came round to oral sex and, in particular, pussy licking.  
 

It’s no secret - I’m a huge fan and relish the opportunity to keep us both entertained for a looooong time.  
(… yes, my mouth is watering right now !!) 
 

I can’t recall her exact words but the young lady implicitly stated that it was an older guy thing.  
 

Whilst I cannot deny that I’m an older guy.  And will ever deny my favour for licking pussy 😉, I was surprised by this being more of an older guy thing. I’ve enjoyed it since I first had opportunity in my ***s but maybe sexual inclinations are like fashion - they move on ?!   Which suggests that old(er) folks have closet full of old inclinations ? 
 

So - my question is - what is the most popular “modern” sexual desire, if it’s not pussy licking ? 
 

There is also a saying that fashion always circles back round - does that also apply to sexual inclinations such as  licking ? 
 

And lastly … are my inclinations stuck in the past and do I merl to roll with the times more ???

[Deleted Member]

I can‘t consider myself old but find it very interesting and don‘t understand how it‘s different than a bj. We want that stuff but don‘t wanna repay? - Nah.

[mo****]

1 minute ago, DSRelation said:

I can‘t consider myself old but find it very interesting and don‘t understand how it‘s different than a bj. We want that stuff but don‘t wanna repay? - Nah.

I get that especially if you took the time to be great at what you do and ur current partner doesn’t have a clue

[Fr****]

Na I’m younger and I love giving a woman head, if a man says he doesn’t he needs to grow up lol

[MsDrawers]

Some of my most attentive lovers have been much younger than I. If anything, I'd say younger men tend to have a healthier attitude to sex but I think its probably more complex than that and not reducible to crude categories.

[th****]

In my experience, the guys that did not enjoy it were the younger ones. They were not invited back over! JS!

[Deleted Member]

i had been with a woman who actively did not like when people’s mouths were on her. i was no exception. that fling lasted all of two weeks bc i wasn’t given the memo. (this was like 20 years ago)

in the life i’ve lived, ive experienced that people- all of you(me too lol), while we all are human an1mals, and to a point insanely predictable, the flame that fuels the vessel is so so incredibly different in each of us that no two(or more!) entities really will have the same experiences. similar can exist, but not the same.

what you were today is not the same as yesterday or tomorrow, as well as likes and dislikes. could be totally polar opposite over a decade.

i’m not necessarily asking you, nor do i need to know, but your answer does lie within you; ask yourself, why do you enjoy it? within that thought process lies the truth of why you always have why you always will, and why umbrella statements may apply to the an1mal on the outside, but it doesn’t protect the fire on the inside from generalization.

[Ga****]

It’s not about age, it’s about being a selfish lover. Younger guys who aren’t interested in coming back don’t eat pussy. If they’re interested they will eat pussy and be thrilled about it.

[DirtyDaddyx]

12 minutes ago, DSRelation said:

I can‘t consider myself old but find it very interesting and don‘t understand how it‘s different than a bj. We want that stuff but don‘t wanna repay? - Nah.

I enjoy receiving too - but I see that as a separate thing rather than a repayment.  One should not lead to the other nor should there be an expectation of give and take - from my perspective of course.  
 

I would willingly give and receive no take because for me the enjoyment is in the giving itself.  
 

I suppose the opposite also applies - where the joy is in receiving in itself.  

But the main question is age and “fashionable” trends. 

[Deleted Member]

I have much better luck with younger woman. Because I make it a point to let them know I wanna taste them. And then of course I had that I strive to make you squirt. I don’t understand young men either. When I was in my prime I couldn’t wait to get a taste 😂

[Ga****]

6 minutes ago, DirtyDaddyx said:

I enjoy receiving too - but I see that as a separate thing rather than a repayment.  One should not lead to the other nor should there be an expectation of give and take - from my perspective of course.  
 

I would willingly give and receive no take because for me the enjoyment is in the giving itself.  
 

I suppose the opposite also applies - where the joy is in receiving in itself.  

But the main question is age and “fashionable” trends. 

I remain convinced that if the other person isn’t interested in reciprocating it indicates they’re a selfish lover, and therefore not worth any of our time. And especially, if they don’t eat pussy or cock at the beginning of the relationship, when they’re trying their hardest to please (unless it’s a ons), when they’ll have settled in they’ll just become even more selfish. It’s a parameter for me: if they don’t prove themselves to be enthusiastically devoted to my pleasure I’m not seeing them again. And of course I could ask/make them, but that would skew the results.

[DirtyDaddyx]

14 minutes ago, GabsGabsinG said:

It’s not about age, it’s about being a selfish lover. Younger guys who aren’t interested in coming back don’t eat pussy. If they’re interested they will eat pussy and be thrilled about it.

So - maybe in terms of age and generation - does that suggest that today’s “disposable society” has the same mentality when it comes to sexual encounters ? 

[gy****]

I absolutely 💯 love licking pussy and strive to make my partner cum in my mouth at least twice before moving on to BIGGER THINGS and BTW I really love licking 😋 a hot sexy clean ASS!!

[Sw****]

I've never enjoyed being eaten out, it just doesn't feel good to me. I have tried it a few times but it isn't for me.

[Ga****]

14 minutes ago, DirtyDaddyx said:

So - maybe in terms of age and generation - does that suggest that today’s “disposable society” has the same mentality when it comes to sexual encounters ? 

It was true twenty years ago, too. I don’t think it’s about the generation. It’s about what they think they can pull off. If they don’t really think they need to impress the woman they won’t perform oral. But when they like you they will eat your pussy. I mean- it’s the same for me. If I find the sex unsatisfying for any reason, I won’t devote as much effort to oral. I probably won’t do deep throat, I definitely won’t swallow. If I don’t really care about seeing you again I will put in limited effort and be done with it. It might just be that they’re not sufficiently turned on.

[Ma****]

Some like it some don’t - I’ve experienced both during dates

[Av****]

Im 33 and I absolutely looove muff diving. If that makes me an older guy then fuck it. I will muff dive on anyone who enjoyes it.

[ho****]

I believe it is a personal preference. Maybe, don't shoot me, how into that person is in giving pleasure vs. receiving. Some people get their pleasure from giving lots of pleasure to their partner. I'm not saying it is inequal. If I am with a pleasure Dom, I give as good, trying for better, then I receive.

[Ca****]

Younger women seem to not be as interested as well. Which I think is weird. As far as current trends with the younger crowd? Rimming, licking ass, anal, I don't know why, but it does seem to be a big thing with them

[Pumpingulikegas]

I have heard alot of younger guys wont do it/are horrible at it. Im 37 and absolutely love it, always have and always will. My thought is younger generation is so caught up in lies just to get laid that they dont have the desire for it. I believe us who do, we do it with a certain passion. A passion that has her sounding like i spilled my slur*** and wont waste a drop. That passion, that shits unmatched! Shoot, call me old then for loving it cause i won't be stopping!!!

[ho****]

SweetMelancholy
May I suggest that next time you want to try, please do try again, practice a little meditation, or deep breathing to ease any anxiety or negativity you may have. You may have this without even knowing about it. It won't hurt to try. If it does, it's totally your partners fault. Lol. Good luck.

[Ga****]

37 minutes ago, DirtyDaddyx said:

So - maybe in terms of age and generation - does that suggest that today’s “disposable society” has the same mentality when it comes to sexual encounters ? 

Maybe that’s it, yes. Maybe we just no longer invest as much. I know that my effort in sex will be directly proportional to my interest towards the guy. If we start having sex and I realise it’s not going to work for me my effort level will just plummet. No deep throat, no swallowing. BUUUUT, if I like the guy I will pull out all the stops.

[Th****]

I’ve always been a fan of going down on women. I’m middle aged now, but it was something I loved when I was a much younger man. For me it’s always been about pleasing my partner. When I can give my partner an orgasm (or several) it makes me happy and I get a lot of gratification from that. I’d say I enjoy giving oral slightly more than I enjoy receiving. I don’t have a personal insite into why younger generations seem to not enjoy making a meal out of a woman’s pussy. As others have said maybe it’s the disposable nature of their generations, maybe it’s a selfish lover scenario, or maybe it’s something we don’t understand.

[th****]

there is nothing sexier than a woman who is quivering in ecstasy and begging me to stop as I eat her pussy

[hu****]

In my experience, older men appreciate pussy so much more than young men let’s say under 25. I think they focus on themselves more! Whereas older men are more willing to please a woman. & I feel like the new things are anal & facefucking! Stick to eating pussy lol