Female Orgasm

[Cl****]

Do yall actually have issues with guys not bringing you to orgasm? I’ve been talking with some of my fwb and f buddies and they complain about their boyfriends or exes not being able to bring them to orgasm at all.

[la****]

Yes 💔

[Deleted Member]

My wife has had over 60 partners in the past. Never once has any of them done it before. I on the other hand easily give her 4 or more in a 30 minute session from just penetration alone. Its rare apparently but you find the right couple, its easy. Just find someone that you enjoy their style with.

[Deleted Member]

100% still waiting to have one

[ki****]

I think it depends on each person. For a girl, she might be really sensitive or maybe not, plus we all like different things. I’ve heard of girls being able to orgasm just from nipple stimulation. Most girls need some clitoral (external) stimulation, not just vaginal stimulation. Although some girls can get off from that alone. And then also the guy or her partners skill level or what they know about their partners likes and dislikes. This is why having discussions is important. Some guys actually don’t care if their partner orgasms. Some guys get off just on making her cum. In short, It depends on each individual couple and their own bodies and what they enjoy.

[Deleted Member]

3 minutes ago, kimchifriedrice22 said:

I think it depends on each person. For a girl, she might be really sensitive or maybe not, plus we all like different things. I’ve heard of girls being able to orgasm just from nipple stimulation. Most girls need some clitoral (external) stimulation, not just vaginal stimulation. Although some girls can get off from that alone. And then also the guy or her partners skill level or what they know about their partners likes and dislikes. This is why having discussions is important. Some guys actually don’t care if their partner orgasms. Some guys get off just on making her cum. In short, It depends on each individual couple and their own bodies and what they enjoy.

Yes! I do my damndest to make sure she cums before I do. Doesn't always happen but I try!

[LadyV]

Yeah, I have had men either struggle (due to him lscking basic anatomical knowledge - which I didn't know about him prior) or outright not care about whether or not I got to cum too.

It is actually a very widespread problem amongst men that makes heterosexual sex with men really unappealing. It's all the risks with shitty odds of rewards.

[Be****]

It’s always made me laugh when men claim they can make any woman orgasm. Every woman is different and every woman ive ever been with takes some exploration to learn what does it for that individual

[Te****]

Ya I only orgasm with my husband. Have never been lucky enough in the L.s so far 😭

[RichardBlack61]

The first job of any man is to ensure the lady he is with gets the pleasure she deserves

[In****]

Definitely in the past, I have.

[Deleted Member]

yes. men ive been with when they try to please me that way (if they care to in the first place because many do not) are very rough to the point they hurt me even when i ask them to be more gentle :((( or they do not take their time with me.

[Mi****]

This question makes me sad. All of you queens deserve to be treated as such.

[ba****]

Some men dont even try but I just dont give them a 2d chance. Also a matter of communication or culture sometimes

[ep****]

What about when a woman cant make a guy orgasm?

[Deleted Member]

It took until almost my mid-thirties to have a partner who cared about pleasing me or had the knowledge of how to do so.

[Vi****]

Luckily I've never had that problem, but heard that lots of females do.

[fi****]

15 minutes ago, epicsmoke said:

What about when a woman cant make a guy orgasm?

They're not even comparable. Making a guy cum is pretty easy

[Deleted Member]

I’ve never had a partner give me an orgasm, thought it was just cause I was sleeping with men. Imagine my surprise when even my lovely (now ex) girlfriend couldn’t even manage it no matter how hard they tried :(
I can sometimes struggle to get myself off so it’s not a lack of skill or effort from the other party I think somebodies just have a hard time with it! Now it stresses me out when people are soooo focused on getting me off cause I know they won’t manage it and I’ll feel bad (I shouldn’t but I will) maybe if I got comfortable with someone it would work but my guess is it’s just something that won’t happen for me (womp womp) and that’s ok :3

[Deleted Member]

I’ve taken multiple sex classes on how to properly give a woman oral. I’ve learned so much that I can make any woman squirt, cum and orgasm in minutes

[Deleted Member]

You just gotta know to slow to go and you only need two finger tips rubbing the gspot slowly back and forth. And the mouth and tongue game needs to be on lock. Never use teeth and never go fast

[Te****]

It probably has a lot to do with how much stress or anxiety you carry as a person everyone's different. Really hard for some people to unwind and relax enough to get there especially if it's with a new partner. Of course comfortability plays a huge roll.

[Qu****]

I can count on both hands the number of times I orgasmed with my ex in 15 years. It was awful because he was so selfish he didn’t care. Daddy makes me cum so hard every time!!!! I think it depends on the man and how much he cares about the other person. Now have there been tones that he gets off before me? Occasionally. But he always makes sure I get off as well even if it’s not from his cock. Because he cares about his partner.

[Deleted Member]

I am not judging no one but I always make the lady cum at least 3 times before I nut 😜

[Deleted Member]

I always make sure I please my women enough to the point they ares fully satisfied. Then I’m next