First Time… do I have to be bi?

[Bi****]

So I have been enjoying a couple lately. Or they have been enjoying me. We have met twice and we have another get together on Friday. After much asking, I have given in and said I will allow the husband to suck me and my balls. That’s all I have agreed to on Friday.

This will truly be my first time ever having a man touch me or certainly put his mouth on me. I’m only doing this for them as I am perfectly content just performing without his involvement. So my question is, as soon and his mouth hits me am I bi by default? Can I still just say I’m straight even though this took place. The thought of a man alone seems very off to me so I can’t get behind saying I’m bi. Your thoughts?

[gi****]

Just enjoy what's enjoyable. Do it for you, head feels good.

[Ma****]

Hey man, you are what you are. I can say I’m bi but I’ve never been involved with just a man it’s only been with couples. I love a bi threesome but that’s it for me. You are whatever you want to be. If it happens and it’s not for you that’s fine and you live your life and move on, you tried it great but not your thing. If you enjoy it then you go from there. You set your boundaries and that’s it. Have fun!

[Ul****]

You don’t have to put a label on anything if you don’t want to. It’s your sexuality! Do whatever feels good and what you feel most comfortable by :))

[za****]

You can 100 percent say ur still straight. Many wouldn’t agree but just cus u did it doesn’t mean u are actively attracted to what’s happening.

[Ir****]

Labels ain’t all that easy or that great man. I have fucked a few men. And been blown by more than that. Had a cuck three way with him involved. I walk away viewing myself as just a dominant alpha. Nothing else. I’m not romantically attracted to men. Or men at all really. If they have a penis like femboys or some trans women, I like that. I like feminine energy and bodies. Is that bi? Gay? Soemthing else? Who cares. Am I having fun and is everything honest and consensual ? Yes. Then idc about labels. You’re good bro. Go have your kinky fun!! And be safe!

[Ja****]

8 minutes ago, IrishPride9 said:

Labels ain’t all that easy or that great man. I have fucked a few men. And been blown by more than that. Had a cuck three way with him involved. I walk away viewing myself as just a dominant alpha. Nothing else. I’m not romantically attracted to men. Or men at all really. If they have a penis like femboys or some trans women, I like that. I like feminine energy and bodies. Is that bi? Gay? Soemthing else? Who cares. Am I having fun and is everything honest and consensual ? Yes. Then idc about labels. You’re good bro. Go have your kinky fun!! And be safe!

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[Ch****]

What everyone above me said!! Own what you do and don't worry about it. Heck, if you need to (and especially if he's submissive or beta & you're dominant), you can make it like you're forcing him to do it. Go have fun!

[Sp****]

Hi big changes,

It's cool that you agreed to that, if you feel confortable with it. In my oppinion, that does not make you bi, for you being bi, you have to feel atracted to other guys or at least parts of them.

For me, I started to feel atracted to parts of men after I went to a kinky party with my girlfriend. Now I get aroused by hot man bodies or by cocks... and desire to suck dick and get fucked in the as... am I bi? I don't Know, I don't care... I mean, just enjoy the sex with this couple... (both ways) ;)

Of course being bi is better, you get more people to enjoy 🤣

[Ir****]

27 minutes ago, Jade_94 said:

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[ro****]

If you don't want it then don't agree to do it.

[li****]

As someone else said no not necessarily. Being bisexual means you are physically and sexually attracted to two genders both male and female. If you have this experience and decide you like it, you could then say that you are bi. BUT this is all up to you. ALWAYS. You can call yourself whatever you’d like. You choose how you present yourself to the world. Not others

[ki****]

Yeah don’t do anything yourself not comfortable with. Have a conversation with them. I’m sure they wouldn’t want you to be uncomfortable, they want you to enjoy yourself. I think that what you’re feeling is normal and it doesn’t make you bi, being attracted to some people of the same both male and some female does. Doesn’t matter what you want to do with them, it’s about the physical attraction as far as I understand it.

[Ye****]

Mentally if you don't enjoy it, then you're not bi... but physically you've done bi stuff, soooooooo

[ge****]

The key here isn't whether you are bi or not - but the reason you're considering that step.
If you're doing it just to please them, or to maintain the contact with the lady, then it's the wrong reason.
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If you're genuinely comfortable with doing it and are curious as to what it would be like to be with a man, then go for it - as others have suggested labels (whilst useful to identify with others) aren't of great importance.

[je****]

What I’m gathering here is they have been asking this a lot, and from what I’m reading it sounds like they’re pressuring you because you used the words “giving in” and “I’m only doing this for them” “perfectly content just performing without his involvement.”

Always check the acronym F.R.I.E.S. when it comes to consent:

Freely given: Consenting is a choice you make without pressure, manipulation, or under the influence of *** or alcohol.

Reversible: Anyone can change their mind about what they feel like doing, anytime. Even if you’ve done it before, and even if you’re both naked in bed.

Informed: You can only consent to something if you have the full story. For example, if someone says they’ll use a condom and then they don’t, there isn’t full consent.

Enthusiastic: When it comes to sex, you should only do stuff you WANT to do, not things that you feel you’re expected to do.

Specific: Saying yes to one thing (like going to the bedroom to make out) doesn’t mean you’ve said yes to others (like having sex).

Can you say you can check off every letter? ❤️

[qu****]

sexual orientation is about what you are -attracted- to, not what you've done. There's plenty of gay guys and lesbian women who we're in straight relationships before realizing/coming out, and it didn't make them less queer---this doesnt have to mean youre any less straight unless you enjoy it and come to that conclusion yourself. Even then though, you dont owe anyone an explanation or a label if you dont want to give it.

[Fa****]

Many straight men have sex with other men just for the sake of sex… in my opinion that doesn’t qualify them as bi or gay. If a straight man has emotional involvement and attraction to a man after a sexual occurrence, that could qualify as bi, a straight man might fuck a watermelon, but that doesn’t make him a watermelon.

[Ch****]

52 minutes ago, jess79882 said:

What I’m gathering here is they have been asking this a lot, and from what I’m reading it sounds like they’re pressuring you because you used the words “giving in” and “I’m only doing this for them” “perfectly content just performing without his involvement.”

Always check the acronym F.R.I.E.S. when it comes to consent:

Freely given: Consenting is a choice you make without pressure, manipulation, or under the influence of *** or alcohol.

Reversible: Anyone can change their mind about what they feel like doing, anytime. Even if you’ve done it before, and even if you’re both naked in bed.

Informed: You can only consent to something if you have the full story. For example, if someone says they’ll use a condom and then they don’t, there isn’t full consent.

Enthusiastic: When it comes to sex, you should only do stuff you WANT to do, not things that you feel you’re expected to do.

Specific: Saying yes to one thing (like going to the bedroom to make out) doesn’t mean you’ve said yes to others (like having sex).

Can you say you can check off every letter? ❤️

I love this acronym, though I do wish that R was for revocable, not reversible. To me, revoking consent makes more sense than reversing it.

Reverse means to put it back to what it was and that implies that it was a no to begin with. That suggests *** to me. Reversing to the unknown (when being asked to consent the answer isn't fully known to the one asking until you give it) is weird in this context (to me).

Revoking is taking away. To me this makes way more sense. I know that revocable is more often used in legal speak but, in my opinion, it belongs here more than 'reverse' because we are talking about removing consent, not going back to the unknown.

My 2 cents. 🪙🪙

[gy****]

I'm straight but BI CURIOUS, especially after my GF has said she has had nasty dreams of me sucking a cock and a guy sucking me and honestly this sounds VERY EXCITING, she has also pegged me but this doesn't make me gay ...you like what you like

[BabiiGirl91]

I have dabbled in threesomes and some one on one stuff with another woman but I don’t consider myself bi. I think it’s because I wouldn’t ever want to ‘date’ another woman but I’m happy to do stuff sexually now and again. It’s confusing because I’m not sure myself if that’s correct lol 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

[gy****]

I also enjoy licking my ass off her cock simply because it's a turn on for her, but deep down I would like to try a real one

[Cr****]

I’m vegetarian but I got really sick last week so I had a couple tacos to get some extra iron. No one saw or cared that I had the tacos you can do whatever you want doesn’t really matter. Who knows you might like it

[tt****]

I believe you could label yourself “bi-curious” until you know if you enjoy it or find out it’s not for you… you’ll have your answer on Friday, but even if you enjoy it, doesn’t necessarily mean you’re automatically Bi unless you want it to… as others said, YOU decide your sexual orientation… Enjoy yourself and hopefully it works out for you all…

[Sp****]

By definition, you are curious.. If it becomes frequent, or you start to desire it.. I watched this, recently, after my own questions...

https://youtu.be/LiTfQZDs5hM