First Time… do I have to be bi?

[al****]

A man knows where all the pleasure points are, he could very well give you the best head you've ever had. As for being bi I think that's more if you wanted to go down on him but your sexual identity is yours and yours alone to determine that's the beauty of it.

I'd go for it. But I'm hellllla bi and can't speak for you...

[ba****]

Def bi. Real straight men would be appalled at the thought of a dudes mouth on them

[mr****]

Barefootbunnyx absolutely correct I’d rather rip my d$$k off and throw it in the river than let a man suck on it!! Their is no try it and see if you like it a straight man knows the won’t like it because the only thing that can turn us on is a woman period.

[xX****]

coming from an actual bisexual person, I think you’re closer to being bisexual if you yourself find that man attractive or if you fantasize about another man.

if you have urges to reciprocate and you find the idea of sucking his dick appealing then yeah, maybe there may be more to consider there.

Lowkey the flavor of the comments above excluding the first come off as homophobic more than helpful.

[St****]

Hiya! So sexuality of course is a spectrum and so are the hateful comments above. What you identify as has everything to do with your enjoyment of your partners. If you find yourself enjoying him as he pleasures you, and find him attractive? Then I’d guess more Bi leaning, but if it’s performative for the couple as a whole and you’re not turned on by him? I’d argue you’re straight. But remember getting hard or turned on when being sucked off doesn’t make you bi automatically because your body is built to react when handled.

[Bi****]

20 hours ago, mrwindell said:

Barefootbunnyx absolutely correct I’d rather rip my d$$k off and throw it in the river than let a man suck on it!! Their is no try it and see if you like it a straight man knows the won’t like it because the only thing that can turn us on is a woman period.

Dude. You’re making it so obvious. Let it out. We can all see it.

[mr****]

Let me just tell you how homophobic I am I have a daughter in an open adoption that I gave too two gay men!! And you were the first one to take things personal and be rude about it a true straight men wouldnt even consider what you are talking about

[Ch****]

Yesterday at 02:57 AM, Railings said:

Biphobia and sexism detected. IYKYK.

Yes!!! 🫰🏽Snap 🫰🏽Snap 🫰🏽Snap

[Bi****]

9 hours ago, mrwindell said:

Let me just tell you how homophobic I am I have a daughter in an open adoption that I gave too two gay men!! And you were the first one to take things personal and be rude about it a true straight men wouldnt even consider what you are talking about

Yeah. Someone who is that homophobic secretly is into it but they are so homophobic because they feel wrong. Nobody cares how homophobic you are. I’m not attracted to men at all. But my attraction is to women. And when I’m with a couple if they really want his mouth on me. Why do I care? Nobody acts like you do over preference.

When someone is on a forum saying they think Mac and cheese is their favorite food do you come running in. Ewww gross! I would rather walk on broken glass than eat that. To say that you would rather rip your d**k off then have a guys mouth on it is simply you screaming into the void to convince yourself you’re not a little light in the loafers.

[Bi****]

And you want to really be sad. Well I just got home and had a great time. I hate to break this to you. But my body count is around 110 +/-10. And in one evening. The husband became convincingly the best head I’ve ever received. So sorry ladies. It wasn’t even close.

Am I attracted to him now? Nope. Just honest. Men can suck the shit like yours is the last dick on earth. I think I had my balls sucked correctly for the first time ever. Hubby had skills. And what’s better than driving away knowing how much squirt cleanup is needed. While I count my Benjamin’s. I bet he gave great head too.

[Be****]

Lmao - a mouth is a mouth, warm and wet. I'm glad you had a good time.

[Bi****]

2 minutes ago, Beffi said:

Lmao - a mouth is a mouth, warm and wet. I'm glad you had a good time.

The craziest thing. A mouth isn’t a mouth. I’ve been with 100ish women and this one guy took the trophy for best blow job on the very first attempt. Color me shocked.

[Be****]

A mouth is a mouth, but skills are skills 😈

[Be****]

I wonder if I could beat it? I take great pride in my oral skills. 😏🤔

[Bi****]

1 minute ago, Beffi said:

I wonder if I could beat it? I take great pride in my oral skills. 😏🤔

If you didn’t live so far and allowed me to message you I’d def let you try

[ar****]

50 minutes ago, Beffi said:

I wonder if I could beat it? I take great pride in my oral skills. 😏🤔

Offtopic: your name "Beffi" (bef) in the Dutch language means giving oral to lady parts. So you're probably right to say oral is "up your alley"! 😁

[Be****]

It's just Bethie the way my younger brother said it as a toddler, but I've heard it means something else in Dutch lol

[ar****]

5 hours ago, Beffi said:

It's just Bethie the way my younger brother said it as a toddler, but I've heard it means something else in Dutch lol

Your brother has a way with... ... words! 😇😅

[Be****]

5 hours ago, arnhem961 said:

Your brother has a way with... ... words! 😇😅

He just couldn't pronounce the TH sound yet lol

[Be****]

Yesterday at 05:33 AM, BigChanges said:

If you didn’t live so far and allowed me to message you I’d def let you try

I don't have any filters on that would disallow it... Not sure why. Try looking me up on that other website that ends in "life". (BelladonnaBeffi there) 😈

[Bi****]

12 minutes ago, Beffi said:

I don't have any filters on that would disallow it... Not sure why. Try looking me up on that other website that ends in "life". (BelladonnaBeffi there) 😈

Hmmm. Now it let me. Check

[un****]

February 27, Stray102 said:

Hiya! So sexuality of course is a spectrum and so are the hateful comments above. What you identify as has everything to do with your enjoyment of your partners. If you find yourself enjoying him as he pleasures you, and find him attractive? Then I’d guess more Bi leaning, but if it’s performative for the couple as a whole and you’re not turned on by him? I’d argue you’re straight. But remember getting hard or turned on when being sucked off doesn’t make you bi automatically because your body is built to react when handled.

The end of this comment = chef's kiss

[Mr****]

This kind of reminds me of an argument for who is straighter that I saw online. It said (paraphrased) if one person has tried strawberries and one person hasn't and both people say they don't like strawberries who is more accurate in their dislike of strawberries. And then posed the question how do you know if you're really straight if you have never tried being with a man (in your case).

At the end of the day you can call yourself whatever you want it's just a label you are assigning to yourself. If people don't understand it that is their problem.