Begging or demanding… the difference?

[PL****]

3 hours ago, wbl51265 said:

Begging is extremely hard to do through text; exaggerating words, emojis, phrases are all needed. With text, phone or video the only way to actually convey your begging is to flat out say, “I’m begging you please xyz”. This is going to be especially true if you and your partner haven’t worked out each other’s messaging nuances. Voice memos come in very handy in this kind of situation.

Even by phone and video you have to put more work into it sounding and feeling like begging.

When I’ve done any begging through text / chat it has always been an exaggerated please, please, please ….. same with phone and video. There are so many subtleties lost in a non face to face begging situation.

I agree 💯 through text can very much be more difficult to convey a beg. When doing so through text even if one waits until need becomes greater than want. For me when I need xyz text patterns change and can convey this for me. My s***ch patterns change in litterly the words I use. My submissive nature takes over and my begging is desperate rather than a simple statement. I don't know if that happens the same for others when texting...but I can from sounding educated, intelligent, and purposeful in my s***ch patterns, to a blubbering mess, with one single focus of thought...that is the difference and my dom's/domme's can always tell when I am truly begging.

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3 hours ago, wbl51265 said:

Begging is extremely hard to do through text; exaggerating words, emojis, phrases are all needed. With text, phone or video the only way to actually convey your begging is to flat out say, “I’m begging you please xyz”. This is going to be especially true if you and your partner haven’t worked out each other’s messaging nuances. Voice memos come in very handy in this kind of situation.

Even by phone and video you have to put more work into it sounding and feeling like begging.

When I’ve done any begging through text / chat it has always been an exaggerated please, please, please ….. same with phone and video. There are so many subtleties lost in a non face to face begging situation.

This brings up another aspect to/for Me: verbal begging isn't the only way to convey begging and that partners would/could/"should" be skilled in recognising such....
Certainly, not having a visual or physically present display to access is entirely different than flat text. My personal experience has included the gamut so I often consider online, phone, vid, LDR, and in person relations in my responses.
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[pu****]

While this doesn't directly answer your question consider he may have been putting you on the short road to gaslighting you to try to get you to beg even more.