Using Fet behind a partners back

[de****]

March 12, bloomingjourney said:

I'm just going to throw out that while it may be cheating, for some, maybe it gives what's missing and their partner has said they won't give them what they're asking for, but they're also not in the position to immediately leave...

This kind of makes it seem all okay. Just sweep it under the rug. And even though, needs aren’t being met, what’s the use in properly giving someone the Adios. Just cheat. Cheat cheat it’s the way

[su****]

If he can do it. I can too right

[La****]

If you're not in this together, it's shady and weird

[en****]

I think using this when you have a willing partner to play with is silly and could end up burning you. I actually just came to this conclusion earlier today….

I put breaks on my current relationship because as the sex got better and more intense so did her feelings, and I just can’t be there emotionally more than I am. But then I had my first FET meeting…..

[en****]

Damn was the sex bad, chemistry was not there, and I was definitely punching below my weight class if you get me….

[en****]

So when I picked up the phone to swipe today hoping to maybe get a date with a maybe cute girl, I thought wtf am I doing!? I got sexy horny and sub with just a call

[Deleted Member]

March 12, bloomingjourney said:

I'm just going to throw out that while it may be cheating, for some, maybe it gives what's missing and their partner has said they won't give them what they're asking for, but they're also not in the position to immediately leave...

Yall sitting in the comments trying to justify cheating is wild😂😂 some people have rocks for brains.

[BlueGrace]

Absolutely not. If you cannot be honest with your partner about being on this app, then you don’t need to be with someone. Honesty is very crucial to relationships. Being dishonest is gross. Cheating is gross. There’s no excuse to not be honest with your partner(s) about being on this app.

[Sq****]

Me and my girl both have an account

[Lo****]

Its all about communication

[wa****]

Communication is key

[Ke****]

No

[parkcruiser]

Most sites are mostly married guys sneaking around, always been, always will be, sad to say,

[Ul****]

April 13, parkcruiser said:

Most sites are mostly married guys sneaking around, always been, always will be, sad to say,

Maybe 10 years ago... however, recent studies show over all its gettung closer to 50/50, and in some age groups, women are more likely to websites and dating apps cheat. This has been put down to tends on social media platforms such as tiktok and YouTube shorts.

[Sa****]

I think its pretty equal on who is running behind partners back. Men get caught more often cause they aren't smart about it and it is announced all over the place when a woman gets caught its kept a secret (in most cases).

[Sw****]

What if you are figuring yourself out and learning not wanting to hook up just chat with like minded people

[Ba****]

1 hour ago, SweetDaisyluvs said:

What if you are figuring yourself out and learning not wanting to hook up just chat with like minded people

Then great, but you can still have a honest conversation with your partner

The partner being kept in the dark about it is kind of the point of this thread

Breaking peoples trust isn’t a good look regardless of what your intentions actually are

[Sw****]

I agree so this app is just a hook up app not a kink community chat she knows the kink and stuff not the app