Ja**** Posted 15 hours ago Throughout my dating life I've never really known why or when people have been attracted to me. Not that I'm insecure or lack confidence (although that has definitely been the case at points). I just never really know how things have gone from getting on well to them being interested in me. Nearly every time someone has gone in for a kiss I've been pretty unaware they liked me before that. I also have a reputation in my friend group for being very oblivious and not noticing when people are flirting with me or hitting on me. It's led to some strange scenario's where I thought i had made a new best friend because I take people's words when what they were trying to hint with body language and context they wanted more and I've made them feel rejected by just wanting to be friends. I'm also a very wear my heart on my sleeve and very outwardly affectionate and always say what I think and what makes me happy as I feel I don't always communicate in other ways well. I guess my question is, from a woman's point of view what would you say I'm missing? Is there an obvious reason I'm missing that people have found me attractive? Or is it tied in with being super oblivious?
No**** Posted 1 hour ago I sense passige energy. Low self esteem. Go to therapy cause youll improve what you want. Presence attracts what you want. Also maybe too wishy washy feminine. Most women wany masculine leaders
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