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My****

Hello kinky people, I have discovered that I am a switch and looking to embrace both my dominant and submissive side, please can you recommend some toys which are best suited to switch play?

Thanks

Ro****

Not sure if anything is particularly suited to switches. And a lot might depend on whether you switched within a couple (i e. Sometimes you sub to them, other times you are dominant) or switch based on how you click with different people (i.e. with person A you're dominant but person B you are submissive). But one thing I might suggest is that you have a set of toys you use on them as a dominant and a set they use on you as a submissive (if that makes sense). I'd also consider a toy or action you agree that indicates what role you are both in. Example, wearing a particular collar, or a code word.

jj****

Paddles, gags, and handcuffs. You can actually get a BDSM starter kit at most of the online stores and that should give you plenty to try out. Those stores also tend to offer freebies too. If you find something you really enjoy, you can always get a nicer version than what cheapo came with the little starter kit

fo****

Ok why not nice silk ropes. But whips and paddles are easy to hand to partner when roles switch.

ey****

this does depend wholly on if you like the same thing either side of the slash

all toys are effectively switch toys 

Sq****

Just start with a full kit of bondage items

ro****

I think I'm a switch too. I haven't found my first BDSM partner.
From my research you should set ground rules on when a switch should happen. It can be anything you both agree to.
I was thinking about having separate Dom/sub storages. Passing the key for each can be a clear separation.

Hezzair

Speaking as a switch, it depends on what you like to keep in your wheelhouse for yourself both to have used on you, and to use on other people. I, personally, have a few strap-ons of various sizes, a couple of floggers, some rope and other bondage gear, and some handy kitchen tools that can be used as impact devices, in addition to my other vibes/dildos, etc. Everything I own obviously can be cleaned easily and/or have a condom tossed over it. The difference is knowing when you want to flip that switch between D/S.

Ta****

As a sub with a hugely developing masochist side I have a full range of implements, toys, restraints and Im told Im extremely well prepared but I like to know that Im the only one anything has been used on and cleaned properly because I have OCD with personal hygiene

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