Confessions of a Newbie: Trying to Figure Out Where I Fit in Kink

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12 hours ago, beech-island592845 said:

I really liked this and honestly as the polar opposite being a female that feels completely uncomfortable giving control I can relate.

🫶🏻

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Im not the only one then

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5 minutes ago, southampton660809 said:

Im not the only one then

Apparently not. 😄.. I am so glad I posted this !

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Yesterday at 02:10 AM, Juk_LakeCharles said:

I say youre thinking and pondering and figuring it out. Just like your write up, you had great answers for your own question just from “hearing yourself” ask them. I think you keep doin what youre doing bro. Youre coming from a genuine place it’s obvious. Keep following your instincts I trust your judgement already lol. You should definately.

Appreciate it 🙌

[Sa****]

I think you're confusing masculinity for humanity, paternalism for dominance and self-congratulation for introspection, though it IS good to know that you "genuinely enjoy seeing a strong, confident woman take control SOMETIMES"! (Emphasis mine.) Careful, people might start thinking you're woke... ACK! (In the immortal word of Bill The Cat.)

[PresentisPeculiar]

Always wake up, be woke. The alternative is being asleep, never changing, nor paying attention. Dom, sub...whatever. constantly be woke, questioning norms, seeing if there is a better way, all while respecting the autonomy of others. The definition of woke

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Dear friend. You are the model of a GOOD human. I am glad you are living your life with caring about others.

I am new to FET. I read about many using titles- they are not consistent. My non-FET life is much like yours. I used to hate people say ,"be a man", "masculine ", etc. Best not aim for titles. Even in FET, I am the same.

Be the caring person you are. You are no less letting others be themselves.
Caring about others is SEXY AF !!!