Rope/handcuff play

[Johnny-3026]

I’m new to tying people up or handcuffing. I assume most people do this sort of thing with someone they trust there anything that makes you feel unsafe/uncomfortable amidst the action? Is there anything you don’t like having done or think guys should do more of while being in that position? I understand it is subjective but I’d still like to hear people’s opinions.

[kg****]

I enjoy little check ins :) How are you feeling?” “Can you wiggle your fingers and toes?” “Is anything too tight or uncomfortable?” “Do you need water or a break?” Best wishes <3

[to****]

I do enjoy being cuffed and having my mouth used like a well you know but not to hard I do kinda like to be able to talk the next day at work

[Rick_sensual405]

Check ins are great. Trying having an assortment of materials incase, sometimes cuffs and rope can be daunting. Make your captive feel in control, go over what is going to happen to them and show them you have made proper precautions (quick release ties, medical sheers). Make if fun and playful for them, verbally or sensually tease them. Most important of all discuss aftercare and do said after care, especially with more intense scenes. Be safe and have fun.

[PL****]

I have very strict hard limits when first being tied by a partner. They change to soft limits and eventually may even go away as being a limit at all once full trust is established. One example is when first being bound No cock gets to fuck my hours when tied. This starts as a hard limit, but changes as trust is built.

[Pa****]

A few of thoughts:
- Use padded handcuffs. Otherwise, it’s possible your partner may end up with some soft tissue damage.
- Do a “dry run” Talk each other thru what will happen and more importantly, how.
- Find out if there are any physical limitations and/or preferences . Try placing the hands above, behind, attached to an anchor, etc.
- As the previous post highly recommended, check in, early and often.
- The fact that you’re asking questions says a lot about you!
- Restraint Play done right adds yet another layer to the D/s dynamic!

Have Fun!