If the man only addicted to his wife smell, but turned off by others women smell. Fetish or not?

[St****]

Sorry, English is my 3rd language. I not want Google answer, I want human answers. If you can settle this for me.

You know how online they said there a whole thing of men buy women dirty underwear to sniff fetish.
But my husband only like the smell specificly of my underwear, and absolutely turned off when it come to other women. So it is still a fetish?

In my 14 years marriage, my husband just so attached to and adore the smell of my vagina, he thinks it smell sweet (while I don't think so). But he literally said he wants to 'taste' me, and he always go down on me everytime before penetration. He just like to have his face in my vagina, lol.

It not just that, he literally smell my vaginal discharge on my dirty underwear, he thinks it smell sweet.
Even when I'm on my period and my menstrual *** on there mix with my vaginal discharge, he still smell it. And still say it smell sweet.
And he handwash my dirty underwear and bra, as he the one that does laundry in our marriage. He is a doting husband.

The thing is I actually like him handwash my underwear, he is my husband, the bra the underwear I wear are washed by his hands, the man I love, why would I mind? And he does laundry, that is great. Better then other men who wait for their wife do their laundry for them.

What baffled me is he LOVES the smell of my vaginal discharge, even when during my menstrual, and he loves the smell towrads the end of my menstrual cycle, where you spotting and mixed with my vaginal discharge.

He just loves the smell of my vaginal discharge, he literally sniff my underwear.

No, he absolutely does not like the smell of other women out there, he only like mine and I'm his wife.

[st****]

I think it’s localized

[ImpressKandi]

Fetish or not... it might be both as in fetish and he loves you. You might smell really to him. Or some witchy play. Who knows

[DO****]

Not a kink just true love and devotion

[Cu****]

I think it's not a fetish, just the way pheromones work.

[Hypnocurious]

It is the scent of a woman. His women. Your scent every time is the scent that drives him crazy. Just like his scent drives you crazy. You are so lucky he likes, wants, desires your scent every time Who cares if it is Fetish, Kink, or anything else. Your scent is all he craves......... Give it to him. He wants you.......... Body, soul, scent. You are a very lucky woman to have that man who wants everything you are. You are all that he wants, craves, desires, he wants you. In every sense of the word Want. You are his everything. Give him your scent, allow him to breathe in in, from you, from your clothes, from your underwear, from your flesh. He wants you......... Be happy.

[lo****]

Mostly a mental thing can be dangerous he only wants you so other women don't interest him. It is an obsession and if you show any signs of losing interest in him most of the time they rather kill than lose that person.

[lo****]

Person

[ch****]

That means you’re in love bro

[Ga****]

42 minutes ago, lovestoeatsushi said:

Mostly a mental thing can be dangerous he only wants you so other women don't interest him. It is an obsession and if you show any signs of losing interest in him most of the time they rather kill than lose that person.

What the fuck are you on about

[Cu****]

32 minutes ago, GageL said:

What the fuck are you on about

Yeah WTF? That's completely illogical

[Ca****]

He only thinks about you

[Laycette]

Some lady's bits do snell absolutely amazing due to some very specifix mix of bacteria, ***ctype, pheremones etc. And if your man really loves this specific aroma, then no other is going to come close or could even be a turn-off. I know bc I have had this experience ;-)

[Ra****]

Don't ever question him. He craves your body and loves your taste. I have sucked cock after riding it and love the way we taste together, but my taste in his mouth is also fucking hot.🔥

[ki****]

That's that magical four letter word only true and your heart and soul belongs to her many never find it but remember this amazing gift given to you must be cherrished and never let it go how lucky you are it's love the true love between two hearts a gift from Above

[ki****]

God has blessed you

[Laycette]

This is one of those cases to accept and enjoy rather than over-analyse :-)

[DanDanK-ink]

22 hours ago, lovestoeatsushi said:

Mostly a mental thing can be dangerous he only wants you so other women don't interest him. It is an obsession and if you show any signs of losing interest in him most of the time they rather kill than lose that person.

Planet are you on?

[An****]

So i was in an 8 year relationship, ive been out of it for a year. With my 8 year her sweat- kitty- feet- even her underarms always smelled lovely and sweet to me, (sorry not sorry if it sounds weird but its true) and since our breakup ive been with a few women that all smell to me like spices to me for some reason ( I dont know why but they all have the same " spices " smell) and its been a weird turn off i can't really explain or wrap my head around

[St****]

Thank you so much for all the replies in this thread. 

Sorry English is my 3rd language, and I was still a virgin when married my husband, so all these is new to me. Everything about men, love, marriage, sex, I only learn it from my husband.

I know this is a BDSM forum so everyone in here know exactly what kinks is, so this forum is the best place for me to ask, if my husband has kinks here would know.

Thank you so much for your inputs. Greatly appreciated.

[ImpressKandi]

July 8, Anthony1998 said:

So i was in an 8 year relationship, ive been out of it for a year. With my 8 year her sweat- kitty- feet- even her underarms always smelled lovely and sweet to me, (sorry not sorry if it sounds weird but its true) and since our breakup ive been with a few women that all smell to me like spices to me for some reason ( I dont know why but they all have the same " spices " smell) and its been a weird turn off i can't really explain or wrap my head around

Maybe, that's how you can find the one.

[St****]

My husband is an Executive at work (at engineering corporate), it a stressful career. I do try my best to be a good wife and not stress him.

What I notice is when he stress at work, and when , he come home from work he wants to smell my vaginal discharge, he said my smell calm him and sooth him.

I mean he literally put his face between my  legs,  and eat me out (you get the gist, lol). He wants the direct taste and smell of my vagina (than just the underwear), when he stress.

I mean this is normal too right? lol. I don't mind at all, I just giggles and let him do it. Better than the alternatives,  he not doing it to another woman, or has wandering eyes.