Am I being scammed?

[Deleted Member]

I'm new to all this & I'm talking to "A Mistress" online & I'm trying to arrange a meet. She wants me to pay for a welcome collar & dungeon booking total £220. Is there a BDSM dungeon in Bedworth or am I being taken for a ride?🤔

Edited July 10 by Deleted Member

[Stephen-8967]

I wouldn't give away that amount online

[Gr****]

Don't do it

[Le****]

Seems like a scam. Never pay before meeting the person

[Ve****]

*** should never be involved

[Wo****]

Is scamm

[Fr****]

Never pay up front. A true mistress will wait for the day. It will be a scam.

[RoleMaster]

When I see Mistress in name, then I think Scam. Don’t do it

[Deleted Member]

It's a scam, unfortunately or I should say stupidly I fell for this type of scam.

[Deleted Member]

If she is asking for a steam card, then it is probably a scam. If she won't accept cash on arrival, then thats an indication too. If its happening here then report it

[Curvyasssub]

Scam loads on here especially when all you see is one photo and a automatic bio 😂

[Go****]

As above, asking for *** upfront or asking to move to another messaging app too quickly are often red flags

[Tn****]

It's a scam. Chances are its a *mistress* that reached out first, sweet talked you and then said pay a fee before we meet. I unfortunately fell for one when I first started my experiences with kink. It's stupid but dont follow through with it. Be a troll instead

[70****]

No upfront $$ never will show and then ladder you

[Deleted Member]

Easiest way to spot a scammer :

They always ask YOU first what town your in & if you ask them they'll say YOU answer first

They won't give you an address upfront just a suburb in your town & that's why they'll always ask YOU first what state/country your in & try to trick you by using google to get a suburb name that is popular & far enough way that they can "justify" a deposit upfront through gift cards etc

Always pay in person when you actually met, most these "people" pretending to be doms, mums etc are trying to scam you

[So****]

Definitely- block anyone who asks for *** or who wants to move to an offsite message like telegram or WhatsApp

[Deleted Member]

6 minutes ago, EyeWearGlovesToo said:

If she is asking for a steam card, then it is probably a scam. If she won't accept cash on arrival, then thats an indication too. If its happening here then report it

Not happening here. Have you heard of a site called Shaghunter? I'm currently talking on Zangi to her

[Deleted Member]

6 minutes ago, Tnoodsub31 said:

It's a scam. Chances are its a *mistress* that reached out first, sweet talked you and then said pay a fee before we meet. I unfortunately fell for one when I first started my experiences with kink. It's stupid but dont follow through with it. Be a troll instead

How do you mean be a troll? Do you mean tell her I know she's a fake, total scammer etc?

[Ki****]

Block them. They are all scammers. Alot wouldn't even be woman and just using stolen photos to rob people.

[An****]

Fake just stop talking and block them

[Deleted Member]

15 minutes ago, bdsmperthabdl said:

Easiest way to spot a scammer :

They always ask YOU first what town your in & if you ask them they'll say YOU answer first

They won't give you an address upfront just a suburb in your town & that's why they'll always ask YOU first what state/country your in & try to trick you by using google to get a suburb name that is popular & far enough way that they can "justify" a deposit upfront through gift cards etc

Always pay in person when you actually met, most these "people" pretending to be doms, mums etc are trying to scam you

This is so true.

[Si****]

Good job for asking! You've saved yourself *** and made other people more aware of what's going on.

[An****]

It’s easy to tell a fake profile all u gotta do is go to the google app take screen shot the scammers image and reverse search the picture and if nothing pops up it’s a private picture but it something else pops up it’s most likely stole

[Mr****]

Most genuine places like this have a website and online booking and registrations system. If you aren’t paying direct to the place, it’s probably a scam

[Stu88]

Yes your being scammed, loads of fakes on here!