Am I being scammed?

[sissysluthole]

I have even a better question… has anyone here ever met a real domme on this app..? I’ve been on and off for 2 years.. and literally encountered over 30 fake ones.. fell for a couple in the beginning

[Ma****]

Scam obviously

[Mu****]

Do not pay ANYTHING. No phone bills, gas for meetings. Nothing! Numerous scammers on this thing and most are men that have AI.fake accounts.

[Na****]

I feel like there is a lot of fake ladies profiles on this app too. I'm cutting my subscription to it and going free mode. Just not worth the risk of scams and false hopes at real connections.

[XxLeeLeexxX]

AI is gonna ruin all of these apps! It’s only a matter of time. We’re all gonna have to get off the Internet and actually meet in person for a change lol 

[Curlers50]

its a scam

[To****]

no one should ever have to give anybody anything until they've actually met to verify the person is real, especially not sharing pictures videos or ***, and that includes paying for things unless it's part of your kink in any case make sure the person is actually who they claim to be first.

[ol****]

Scam

[ex****]

Scam

[Ki****]

Scam

[Se****]

I had the same experience with a Mistress on FET. She had me contact a “ Dungeon “ for a suite! It was $480. And she refused to even meet in public with out even a “ Contract “ which was $250. Scam!!!!!

[Se****]

I will also add that their profile had both a Blue check mark and a Crown by their name???? Hmmmm?

[Ja****]

Seen this many times. Don’t do it.

[ex****]

Please report that person.

[Se****]

1 minute ago, exploring2026 said:

Please report that person.

I did. And sent pictures of chat!

[SirDominic]

Even if you ask someone to write your name on a piece of paper and take a selfie with it to see if she/he is genuine - I still won’t buy them stuff.

[dr****]

I wouldn’t give any *** in advance!

[to****]

Women on here are mostly about *** some are liget but most are scamming. Go to a local bdsm event and you will find what you're looking for

[Ro****]

Never pay anything before and in person meet

[Kinkyboy1980]

3 hours ago, sissysluthole said:

I have even a better question… has anyone here ever met a real domme on this app..? I’ve been on and off for 2 years.. and literally encountered over 30 fake ones.. fell for a couple in the beginning

Nope, they all do the same, ask you to chat on another app. Charm you, copy n paste stuff like their rules etc, then ask for payment up front. That can be Tribute, bdsm contract, toys, latex wear, dungeon hire which they only recommend and is always a gmail.com email address. It's all so monotonous.

[Kinkyboy1980]

4 hours ago, Danni44 said:

As a Domme and an ex ProDomme, you’re being scammed.

So how does someone real and genuine connect with a real domme without being judged?

[Kinkyboy1980]

3 hours ago, sissysluthole said:

I have even a better question… has anyone here ever met a real domme on this app..? I’ve been on and off for 2 years.. and literally encountered over 30 fake ones.. fell for a couple in the beginning

Nope, they all use the same pattern. Get you to chat on another app. Charm you, make you feel wanted, then come the fees such as, tribute, coven fees, bdsm contract fee, toys, items, latex wear, dungeon hire, which is always their recommendation and the address is always a gmail.com address. It's all fake and monotonous. Sadly I fell for it and I'm ashamed and embarrassed about being so naive and stupid.

[Da****]

23 minutes ago, Kinkyboy1980 said:

So how does someone real and genuine connect with a real domme without being judged?

If a woman is talking about fees and tributes on a dating app, she’s either a (immoral and unprofessional) ProDomme or a scammer. There is nothing about being a Domme that requires an exchange of ***. A dungeon is entirely unnecessary so don’t fall for that excuse. I haven’t stepped foot in one in years yet I’ve had plenty of subs in that time. Finding a D/s connection is no different than finding a vanilla partner. Ask yourself when the last time you asked a woman out on a date and she wanted payment? Getting to know a person, any person, isn’t about cash. If you’re questioning a Domme’s authenticity due to her approach or behaviour, block and report. I’m sorry you’re not having any luck. It’s really annoying that so many women are claiming to be Dommes for financial gain. It’s gives genuine ones a bad reputation. *** should NEVER be mentioned!

[Kinkyboy1980]

5 minutes ago, Danni44 said:

If a woman is talking about fees and tributes on a dating app, she’s either a (immoral and unprofessional) ProDomme or a scammer. There is nothing about being a Domme that requires an exchange of ***. A dungeon is entirely unnecessary so don’t fall for that excuse. I haven’t stepped foot in one in years yet I’ve had plenty of subs in that time. Finding a D/s connection is no different than finding a vanilla partner. Ask yourself when the last time you asked a woman out on a date and she wanted payment? Getting to know a person, any person, isn’t about cash. If you’re questioning a Domme’s authenticity due to her approach or behaviour, block and report. I’m sorry you’re not having any luck. It’s really annoying that so many women are claiming to be Dommes for financial gain. It’s gives genuine ones a bad reputation. *** should NEVER be mentioned!

Thank you. You must be the only genuine domme on here then. X

[Da****]

5 minutes ago, Kinkyboy1980 said:

Thank you. You must be the only genuine domme on here then. X

My very busy inbox would agree!