si**** Posted July 26 There's definitely a technique to it that's for sure. But after my first when I was a17-18, I went on that quest and now it's my goal every time, with a very very high success rate (95%+)
Je**** Posted July 26 You definitely need a skilled partner. Ive always been capable, just needed the right person. There are some educational videos out there! Watch them, im almost certain every girl can achieve it
wa**** Posted July 26 Just helping a woman to achieve orgasm is so nice; squirting is one heck of a bonus
br**** Posted July 26 Personally, I believe squirting isn’t necessary for every sexual encounter; however, it is a very regular extremely pleasurable experience. I definitely believe there’s a psychological component to it as well, if I’m very nervous or don’t fully trust my partner it won’t happen. To a degree it is also dependent on the lover’s skill to be able to read your body language, or if penetrating pull out if they want you to squirt. To my knowledge some women can still squirt while being penetrated it’s just dependent on how close your urethra and opening to the vaginal canal is. I don’t believe it’s a skill on the squirter’s part, more so you discover it one day, which is extremely embarrassing, especially if you don’t know what it is. Overall, I feel like people don’t experiment with their partner’s pleasure enough; and women often dont experiment with their own pleasure enough in a more solo context. And if there was less of a negative societal context surrounding women’s pleasure many people would likely be more open about squirting. Also, if you or your partner is a frequent squirter highly recommend the Costco waterproof dog blankets they’re extremely soft, fuzzy, and comfortable but also makes for quick clean-up rather than a whole waterproof mattress cover you have to strip off the bed each time, but still use that as a base layer just in case.
NJ**** Posted July 26 I squirt. I can cum and squirt just talking to someone’s they know how to get in my head, so it’s not mechanical for me. It just happens.
Hu**** Posted July 26 It’s just a way I cum.. and while I love the release… I can cum other equal ways. It’s just A way and it’s not the same as semen. It doesn’t want to come out of me to procreate/make new people. I squirt more than anyone I have ever known and can do it on command if excited. Gallons if hydrated. So it’s not like it’s a small release but many other things feel equally good.
ba**** Posted July 26 There are dudes who do it because they feel obligated or because it's fair. You gotta find someone who does it for their own pleasure 😜 most women I've been with have and a couple who didn't know they could.
F1**** Posted July 26 So iv had two so fsr, my ex and my wife, my ex was quick to squirt and often like multiple times in one session, she kinda help me with the understanding of it. Now my wife never had b4 she got with me and well talk about an ego boost. Anyways what I understand is that most women can but the feeling is as if they are going to *** so they hold them selves back and thats what keeps them from doing it so I always advise if they get that feeling, dont freeze up let the feeling come to them.
cs**** Posted July 26 Im convinced every woman is capable of squirting. All that I've been with have squirted for the first time with me. Everyone can argue about what it is until theyre blue but honestly idc, I'll continue soaking sheets. For me it's a reaction or sign of providing pleasure to the point of losing control or your body reacting unpredictably. A show of letting go and giving into the moment.
mi**** Posted July 26 Wow reading this section as a woman is fascinating.. men’s brains huh? Okay so here is my opinion: I love to learn everything about Sex and different varieties of everything that belongs to that topic. I don’t think that every women “can” physically squirt, because every body is different! Also - I (I’m 22 and slept like idk with maybe 10 different men?) never knew that it’s a thing “to squirt” before the 10 person You have to understand that women already don’t know much about their body’s because we still don’t talk about everything! There are still topics that people don’t want to hear about, that’s why our parents, our families and our doctors and even the education don’t tell us about something like this (I’m from Germany, at least it’s here like that). So we have to exist and learn on our own and this works sometimes like try and error So if you want to know if she can squirt, try to ask her if she knows that feeling and how she feels about that topic. But back to my experience: I experienced this feeling for the first time like last year I think. And for me - doesn’t mean it’s like that with every woman! - it’s really also a mentality thing. I never felt so safe and seen with a man like with my boyfriend right now. He did something and out of nowhere it happened, but it wasn’t even that special of a movement. At first I was embarrassed and I didn’t understood what happened. But we could talk and after that moment it happened even more often. Like right now it’s very often. So it’s veryyy important that the person who can theoretically squirt, feels safe and can allow themself to just feel all the things they needs to. With time I understood which movements I need to squirt, almost anybody could do it if they listen to me and try carefully. But it’s easier and makes more fun with my boyfriend. With me it’s literally too easy so I’m sometimes very happy if I don’t have to. Cause after that I’m SO tired like there is not a single chance for me for finishing a session or a second round. Well maybe sometimes but in the first place, it’s very tiring. But it’s also crazy satisfying. But I don’t think that every women feels that way. So you don’t need a special power or smth stupid like this, you need to be ready to try new things, to communicate with your play partner and to be open! Then it can happen. But I won’t explain right now how it biologically works like which movements I need and where because that’s too complicated to explain for strangers So if you want to be proud of yourself or boost your ego, do it if your play partner really feels safe with you, if they can tell you everything and feel everything and just let go. And if you can communicate well.
Da**** Posted July 26 I had my first experience alone. After years of activity, many many partners and extremely enjoyable connections. But what i have found is that I can't shut it off. Like once the secret code was input, I couldn't go back. Not that I mind. Most of my partners have been more than happy to clean up afterwards. The more excited I am, the more it happens though for sure. I will say there is a coralation between it happening and feeling totally confident and the encouragement really helps. Had chats with friends and they just can't do it though.
Un**** Posted July 26 I wouldn't leave her until she did. Unfinished pleasures are never any good. For all involved. 💜
Ba**** Posted July 26 4 hours ago, LonePrimalRI said: It is, as much as people don't like to admit it. You can Google "Nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality" and you'll find the 2014 Study by the International Society for Sexual Medicine. A much more realistic source than "I don't want to admit it but it's ***" Mostly but not completely Google „skene's gland“ for the rest
fr**** Posted July 26 It's not ***. I squirt. I can feel where it comes from and it's definitely not the urethra. My ex husband, 15 years never made it happen. Then again he never even tried to get 2 orgasms in a row, the lazy bum. I discovered that I could a few months after leaving, by myself. I'm on a delightful journey of self discovery.
Mr**** Posted July 26 Can in fact make any woman 💦💦💦 within 10 seconds, ya just gotta know where the skene gland is 😉
Bi**** Posted July 27 It’s been scientifically proven to be part *** and no many of us just don’t care.
Ja**** Posted July 27 It helps if she trusts you. She needs to be comfortable. She needs to know it’s not only okay but encouraged. And then it’s teasing and skill while giving oral and pleasing g spot and front wall. Works every time IF they are comfortable. Once it starts, it can continue into sex if you keep hitting the right spot. But I also have abnormally large hands and d**k so I’m cheating. Lol
Lo**** Posted July 27 3 hours ago, freedom11938 said: It's not ***. I squirt. I can feel where it comes from and it's definitely not the urethra. My ex husband, 15 years never made it happen. Then again he never even tried to get 2 orgasms in a row, the lazy bum. I discovered that I could a few months after leaving, by myself. I'm on a delightful journey of self discovery. Literal research studies can tell you it is mostly ***.
Recommended Posts