co**** Posted July 27 I have always found women attractive and even sexy. But it's always been hard-stop at vagina. As my husband and I have discussed inviting a third or couple, we talked about my boundaries for attraction with women and it's more than I originally thought. I'd like to explore it, But I don't want to exploit someone like they're a walking sex doll and possibly not offer fair exchange of pleasure. How would you approach this?
mistical Posted July 27 There are some women out there that are givers. 🙋🏼♀️ But, I would be up front and honest about your desires.
Si**** Posted July 27 Keep in mind that the other person fully accepts your boundaries with the option to alter as things progress. Just as you expressed and explained your concerns about felling that your exploiting someone then be as frank and open with that person. Don’t over think things, if your husband and new partner are cool with it, then relax and enjoy. Best wishes 😉
Ve**** Posted July 27 And if you and your husband are exploring this together, then if you are hesitant about making sure your exploration partner is being satisfied, then let your husband go down on her for her fulfillment. That way she can get satisfaction as well and that would also allow you to see if you like to watch. You may find quite arousing seeing him going down on another woman. And then let him rail you afterwards..
bo**** Posted July 27 Hi there, as someone who’s been down this road, I’d like to share my experience and hopefully It is insightful. I remember exploring my sexuality and really struggling with that internally. A lot of it had to do with internalized homophobia, and a negative maternal relationship. My first experience was incredibly scary and I felt what I can recall as deep disgust within myself. It took self work to be comfortable within my skin and once I did that, I became incredibly happy. What I would say is, one, if you aren’t already, learn to be comfortable with the idea of being with a woman otherwise the experience will be awful. Two, do as you did here, be straight forward and honest, express that you haven’t done it before and you want to try it. No shame in that. There are women who are open to this, I would say a good app is Feeld. I find that other queer sites are stand offish toward bi curious people, but feeld has many kink friendly people and id recommend. good luck to you. I hope you love what you find.
Jo**** Posted Monday at 05:40 PM Honesty and clarity! My wife feels the same way ... too bad your in Colorado!
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