Tips for a virgin

[Li****]

Honestly I just want to know what I should expect for my first time! Like I know it’s not gonna be exactly what I imagined but I’m not really sure how to go about it! Any tips is helpful! Thanks 😊

[Da****]

Get used to it. You’ll be getting fucked for the rest of your life in one way or another! 🙃

[Li****]

lol 😂 thanks for the advice!

[Eu****]

I'm a man, I don't know how i can relate to you on this topic, but maybe if you share what are yourr concerns, someone will give you some answers in order to have a positive experience. wish you well 🤞

[st****]

Don't over think it. Find. Sgiy you enjoy and trust and doesn't mind take it easy.

[sy****]

Both in bdsm and with sex in general, if you want to maximize your chances of having a good experience then find a guy you are comfortable with that knows what he’s doing. Experience really does matter

[si****]

Make sure your partner completely relaxes you and is patient. I lost my v card at 17 with my virgin 16 yr old highschool sweetheart. We had spent months giving each other oral and I would finger her with 2 fingers. Well come spring break her parents r away and we have her house to ourselves so we decided it was time. Well I was inexperienced and she was very tight cause I guess nerves. It was almost impossible to enter and it was very uncomfortable so we gave up that day. Spent a couple weeks trying more and more. I’ll always remember one day she asked with puppy dog eyes “will sex ever feel good” 😞 I was at a lost but eventually it never hurt and she became in love with sex, so my advice is patience and live in the awkwardness of it

[Ma****]

Beautiful! May I DM you?

[DaveBlake]

Find an older guy who is willing to go slowly with you. He will know how to get you comfortable and aroused. That will make intercourse much more pleasant. And he will be able to teach you how to pleasure a guy in addition to showing you the ways he can pleasure you.

[ab****]

Best advice I can give you is to share your first experience with someone with whom you feel comfortable and has patients. You need to be open with them and communicate what kind of sensations you are feeling. If something hurts, or is too fast, hard, etcetera you need to speak up and let them know. I would suggest an older man for your first time as they have much more experience. Trust me, you'll want that.
Side note... you say it's not going to be exactly what you imagined, but if you take time to have the conversation with your partner, they may be able to bring said fantasy to life (or at least as close to it as they are able to)

[Re****]

I would make it romantic. So in case it does go awkward or not the way you expected it, you two had atleast a beautiful time to back it up.
Some candles, a nice View, a good Glass of Red wine.
Whatever you enjoy.

[th****]

Take your time, have fun, and ensure that whatever else, your play partner understands & respects "no" (or a safe word if 'no' is part of your roleplay/scene)

[Ad****]

Communication is the best advice, tell them what's and what's not working and most of all just relax and enjoy it!

[fe****]

It most likely won’t be what you imagined lol. Find someone you’re comfortable with, don’t let them pressure you, and suss out the overly “nice” guys. Also, ask them how many virgins they’ve been with before so you can gauge their experience. Best of luck to you. Be safe and have fun✌🏿.

[Al****]

looking back on it, maybe don't think about it so much as how you imagine it for you. Tell the person it's your first time and you wanna make it meaningful and see what kind of magic you can make for each other.

[DirtyDaddyx]

Honestly, don’t overthink it, don’t build it up too much - relax and enjoy.

[Na****]

Don’t just give it to any man; give it to someone that respects you and your boundaries. Take your time with it; be vocal with him on what’s working for you so he can keep the same flow. And fourplay and lube are importante.
I’d also recommend doing it with an older man because they can be more understanding and take their time so you can enjoy it and have the best experience your first time.
Communication is key; if the vibe isn’t there, don’t do it. Your first time should be something you remember in a positive way, and because you’re a virgin, I would hate for you to have the type of experience I had, it was shitty and very ***ful. I trusted him, but in the end he didn’t listen to me when I told him to stop repeatedly (4) times ignoring me just because he wanted his finish, then leaving me bleeding that night and for days after that, not asking if I was okay. I was in ***, and after that, I went a long period of time where I didn’t want to be intimate with anyone.
Not trying to scare you, just being honest that you never really know what’s going to happen, and you gotta be ready for anything. I’d hate for anyone who’s a virgin to have their first time like mine; you never forget it. Take your time and just have fun and good luck.

[An****]

just relax tell him It is your first time so he needs to prepare you good..He needs to lick that pussy like crazy, finger It, until you say:" Take your dick out and put It In."

[Sa****]

Communication is very key. Don't give it up to just anyone, there's always going to be a line of people waiting to sleep with a virgin. I personally don't understand why, however I always told people I don't just sleep with anyone, they gotta have a "golden ticket" to get in these pants meaning they have to meet a certain criteria. Do I have an emotional connection with them? Are they trustworthy? Etc etc

[Ba****]

2 hours ago, NativeQUEEN420 said:

Don’t just give it to any man; give it to someone that respects you and your boundaries. Take your time with it; be vocal with him on what’s working for you so he can keep the same flow. And fourplay and lube are importante.
I’d also recommend doing it with an older man because they can be more understanding and take their time so you can enjoy it and have the best experience your first time.
Communication is key; if the vibe isn’t there, don’t do it. Your first time should be something you remember in a positive way, and because you’re a virgin, I would hate for you to have the type of experience I had, it was shitty and very ***ful. I trusted him, but in the end he didn’t listen to me when I told him to stop repeatedly (4) times ignoring me just because he wanted his finish, then leaving me bleeding that night and for days after that, not asking if I was okay. I was in ***, and after that, I went a long period of time where I didn’t want to be intimate with anyone.
Not trying to scare you, just being honest that you never really know what’s going to happen, and you gotta be ready for anything. I’d hate for anyone who’s a virgin to have their first time like mine; you never forget it. Take your time and just have fun and good luck.

I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said about even trusting/being close with the guy won’t help since I too had a bad experience my first time. He was my partner for 3yrs so I definitely was ready. He had a lot more experience than me, including being with other virgins. I went in expecting him to be really good at foreplay (fingering,etc) but it was so ***ful to me because I was extremely tight. Once I got ready enough we started and it took forever for him to get inside me. Honestly the worst part for me wasn’t even the *** it was him complaining how tight I was multiple times. That completely shut my already low self confidence in that department for a while.

[Ho****]

It will feel good. You will want to feel that feeling over and over again for the rest of your life 🌹❤️🌹

[Va****]

Go get fucked

[Ki****]

My first time I didn't feel anything at all...it was like I was numb...took 2 years before I tried it again....first time make sure it's with someone special and who deserves you...never settle for less then you deserve...

[Da****]

Like everyone is saying don’t let just anyone take your virginity. Make sure it means something. Communicate communicate communicate! Be forthcoming as to it being your first time. I am not bragging here but i have been with a few virgins and every experience on my end was different. The last one I was with (now my ex wife) was amazing for both of us because we both knew what was going to happen. And she let me know what hurt and what felt good. Let him know to take his time. And honestly, maybe find a guy who isn’t extremely well endowed. Don’t try to find a 10” cock for your first time.

[ph****]

You're lucky being the woman. First time for guys is famously terrible almost always. But if you're with an experienced guy and you can communicate, he will take the lead and make it quite enjoyable. Make sure you guys engage in lots of foreplay before hand in a comfortable environment. If not it might be ***ful and unpleasant. Be with someone you trust and like, who communicates and checks in with you regularly. I think if you do that you will have a great experience