Tips for a virgin

[laura90]

5 minutes ago, phoenix77054 said:

You're lucky being the woman. First time for guys is famously terrible almost always. But if you're with an experienced guy and you can communicate, he will take the lead and make it quite enjoyable. Make sure you guys engage in lots of foreplay before hand in a comfortable environment. If not it might be ***ful and unpleasant. Be with someone you trust and like, who communicates and checks in with you regularly. I think if you do that you will have a great experience

Wtf are you even talking about? Lucky to vve a woman when it comes to first time? What an insanely stupid comment, wow. Please girl (the ones who posted this) make sure that you just don't have your first time with guys like this. 🤢

[ph****]

4 minutes ago, laura90 said:

Wtf are you even talking about? Lucky to vve a woman when it comes to first time? What an insanely stupid comment, wow. Please girl (the ones who posted this) make sure that you just don't have your first time with guys like this. 🤢

I dont think you read or understand what I said at all. Do you not know that guys have to perform? And that we cum really fast our first time? If you're a woman with an experienced man who's kind and caring, your first time could last as long as you want. Guys have terrible first times. But girls have a much better chance at having a good experience. Geez why do you look for insults where there are none? Its a fact that women stand a better chance at having a good experience

[Deleted Member]

I've heard from some of my female friends that it hurts the very first time you do it. So I guess if that's true, take it slow don't let the guy rush you

[ph****]

16 minutes ago, laura90 said:

Wtf are you even talking about? Lucky to vve a woman when it comes to first time? What an insanely stupid comment, wow. Please girl (the ones who posted this) make sure that you just don't have your first time with guys like this. 🤢

I love how everyone else in here is being respectful and this chick just comes in to be rude for no reason. Doesn't even add anything to the conversation, just insults me for no reason. I guess some women just blindly hate men no matter how kind they might be

[Ga****]

Take it slow, make sure you do a lot of foreplay, and hopefully do it with a guy who has experience. It doesn't need to be magical, but communication and foreplay will make it far more practical. My first time was with my high school sweetheart, we both hadn't done it before and it was very awkward and uncomfortable. Experience made my later encounters better, with virgins and nonvirgins alike.

[aa****]

Looot of foreplay...also make it fun...explore all u curious

[Li****]

I just wanted to say thank you all for the advice and tips! I really appreciate it! 😊❤️🫶🥹

[SapphicScientist]

Sexplanations has some helpful videos on the emotional and technique level, I find the deep dives on the information helps you get comfortable imagining different things and what you might like and dislike outside of the hazy heat of the moment where communication may be more difficult, explaining what is on and off the table beforehand can prevent consent negotiations from interrupting the flow of the experience. You don't have to do everything, you could break the experience down into some of the other things you're curious about, mutual masturbation is a great way to increase trust and attunement in compatible people

[Co****]

Honestly expect the unexpected for the first time don't expect anything just let it come naturally