Beauty is not a size !!

[BZ****]

Beauty Is Not a Size

There is something rather fascinating about the way some men talk about women’s bodies.

Ask a man whether he likes bigger women, BBWs, or women with curves, and suddenly the vocabulary becomes remarkably diplomatic:

“Size doesn’t really matter.”

“I’m okay with a big girl.”

“It’s all about the person.”

“I don’t really have a type.”

And I have to wonder: Why is it so difficult to simply say, “I love big women”?

Because there is a rather significant difference between desiring someone and being willing to tolerate them.

“Size doesn’t really matter” does not sound like desire. It sounds like an exemption.

“I’m okay with a big girl” sounds even worse. Okay? As though you have been presented with a menu, discovered that the preferred option is unavailable, and decided you can probably make do with something else.

Imagine if women spoke to men the same way.

“Size doesn’t really matter.”

“I’m okay with a little dick.”

“You know, I normally prefer bigger, but personality is what counts.”

Suddenly, I suspect the conversation would become considerably less philosophical.

And yet women are routinely expected to accept this kind of language about their bodies as though we should be grateful that someone is willing to look past our size.

No!!

My body is not something to “look past.”

My curves are not an unfortunate detail that personality must compensate for.

My size is not an obstacle standing between you and the supposedly more important woman underneath.

I am the woman underneath—and the woman you see.

I don’t want to be someone’s exception.

I don’t want to hear that a man is “fine” with my size.

I don’t want to be reassured that he can “handle” a big woman.

And I certainly don’t want to feel that he is secretly wishing I were smaller while telling me that he is attracted to me because he doesn’t want to offend me.

I want honesty.

If you love curves, say you love curves!

If BBWs make your pulse quicken, own it! Dam it !!

If you are attracted to a woman precisely because she is voluptuous, soft, abundant, curvy and unapologetically big, there is absolutely nothing shameful about saying so.

In fact, there is something wonderfully sexy about a man who can look at a woman with curves and say, without hesitation:

“That is exactly my type!”

Or “You embody everything I desire!!”

There is no prize for pretending not to have preferences.

And there is certainly no prize for making a woman feel like she should be grateful that you are willing to overlook her body.

Beauty has never been a mathematical equation. There is no universally correct number on a scale, no predetermined dress size that suddenly unlocks desirability, and no magical measurement that determines whether someone is worthy of being admired, touched, kissed, wanted or loved.

Beauty is not a size. Desire isn’t either.

People are attracted to different things. Some men love petite women. Some love athletic women. Some love tall women. Some love curves. Some absolutely adore big women.

All of that is perfectly fine.

What isn’t particularly attractive is pretending.

So if you don’t like big women, that’s okay.

You don’t owe me attraction.

But please don’t approach me with the energy of someone trying to convince himself that he can make an exception.

And if you genuinely crave a big woman—if curves are what make your eyes linger, your imagination wander and your hands want to explore—then don’t hide behind “size doesn’t really matter.”

Say what you mean.

Say you love big women.

Say you adore curves.

Say you find a BBW irresistible.

There is confidence in knowing what you want and being honest enough to admit it.

As for me?

I am not looking for someone who is merely okay with my size.

I want someone who looks at me and thinks, “Damn. Exactly my kind of woman.”

So yes, beauty is not a size.

But neither is desire.

And if a big woman isn’t what you crave, that’s perfectly respectable.

Just leave me alone.

[sa****]

oh my god preachhhhhhh 😩

[BB****]

Do u know where they have bbw party

[si****]

Yes, girl! Exactly this !

[K1****]

Awwe someone is mad that they werent found very attractive so they have to rant about it instead of trying to better their life and health 😂

[BZ****]

17 minutes ago, K1l0 said:

Awwe someone is mad that they werent found very attractive so they have to rant about it instead of trying to better their life and health 😂

Awww … I guess someone dick is too small so they need to put others down in order to feel big !! 😂😂😂😂

[ma****]

I love big women, but not so much big mouths.

[Do****]

I know exactly what you mean and it’s not wrong to want to be desired not just tolerated.

In general though women are the ones admired and men are the ones tolerated assuming he provides a service. Men desire the woman body where women desire the act a man provides. A woman is desired for who she is. A man is desired for what he can do. It’s sad that the man has to perform like an actor on staged to be appreciated.

[th****]

Confidence if my biggest turn on

[Wa****]

I myself find most women attractive unless they are morbidly obese, I am a half ass health freak, I do not want to invest my time and effort into people that do not take care of theirselves in a certain manner which will lead to their early demise also I don't care how pretty a woman is, if I do not like the person, that is underneath all of that, then there is no point in me trying to pursue that person in any matter with that being said, I have always dated bigger women in my life, I am attracted to beautiful faces and great personalities, bodies can be changed through diet and exercise I tried my best to be healthy for myself and my family that way. If things are, I need to take care of them and be strong and a certain manner that I am that I do not care about being aesthetically pleasing to the eye, even though some people think I am good to look at, I work out g be strong because I have *** and I will not leave a weakness where I will not be able to protect them, especially if it is physically, but that's just my opinion on the matter.

[ni****]

Im attracted to fit women who love themselves and take care of themselves.
You can't love yourself and poison yourself the same day.

[ni****]

Btw women do talk like that lol, they make fun of small dicks. And you cant change diet and get a huge cock. Its your own fault to be overweight its a decision. Small dick isn't lmfao you cant put them in the same category. I dont crave big women I pity them and I feel sad for their joints and the *** they WILL have later in life.

[Un****]

The only thing I don't like about this post is the fact that this is basically generalizing all men. There are men who prefer BBW's over skinny girls. and proudly own it. I actually know more than just a few guys who prefer just that. Sure, the statistics may lean more towards leaner/in-shape women, but to say "ask a man" just means your asking the wrong men.

[Do****]

16 minutes ago, Unchained_Melodies said:

The only thing I don't like about this post is the fact that this is basically generalizing all men. There are men who prefer BBW's over skinny girls. and proudly own it. I actually know more than just a few guys who prefer just that. Sure, the statistics may lean more towards leaner/in-shape women, but to say "ask a man" just means your asking the wrong men.

Agreed. I love big women and not really attracted to skinny girls like at all

[FL****]

I’ve been fucked over by every size a woman that can be doesn’t really matter. Size doesn’t matter they’ll break your soul no matter what.

[OB****]

Absolutely. Here’s a stronger, more polished version that keeps your core argument while making it more nuanced and persuasive:

Does the media influence what we consider beautiful?

From a very young age, we are surrounded by images that tell us what beauty is supposed to look like. Advertising, movies, television, social media, and fashion repeatedly present certain body types as desirable—often the highly stylized, “Barbie doll” ideal.

But beauty standards are not universal or fixed. They are shaped by culture, history, and the society we grow up in.

Ethiopia provides an interesting example. In some traditional Ethiopian communities, a larger female body was historically associated with beauty, prosperity, health, and the ability of a husband to provide for his wife. Supporting a larger wife could even be viewed as a sign of status and prosperity.

As Western cultural influence and media became more widespread, however, beauty ideals in parts of Ethiopia began to change. The slimmer, Westernized image of the female body became increasingly visible and desirable, particularly among younger generations.

The important question is not whether one body type is objectively more beautiful than another. It is whether repeated exposure to a particular image can teach us what we believe beauty looks like.

If beauty were entirely biological and universal, we would expect the same ideal body to be admired across cultures and throughout history. Instead, we see beauty standards change dramatically from one society and era to another.

Perhaps the lesson is simple: we don't just see beauty—we learn what beauty is supposed to look like.I also softened the Ethiopia example slightly because the original version made a broad claim about “ancient Ethiopian men” that would be difficult to apply uniformly across Ethiopia's many cultures and historical periods.

[ha****]

It happens like that with all sorts of different things unfortunately

[si****]

WELL SAID !!!

[ha****]

Agree

[mysterylady88]

can I just say some of the comments like its obese women's fault, I disagree I myself am very overweight but its not my fault and many obese will be the same I have multiple sclerosis have had since I was 21 I am now 45 and I am a type one diabetic so have a insulin pump also not weight related my pancreas just doesn't work hasn't since birth. before you judge someone find out there real story here are some facts for you:- insulin used to control type one diabetes is in fact a fat storing drug.
multiple sclerosis makes the person struggle with everything including just walking and moving around normally treatment to help with chronic *** they all have weight gain side affects and no we type one diabetic cant do the fat jabs as they stop the insulin from working which actually keeps us alive next time before making crass comments educate yourself!!

[La****]

Very nicely stated!

[OB****]

I think with the new peptide medicines we are finding that metabolic disease is usually the culprit. That is not a choice.

[Ly****]

I’ve always been short. And I’ve always known my genes would make me thicker. It’s very difficult to find partners would will be honest with you.