sv**** Posted May 20, 2022 Posted May 20, 2022 I'm a new domme in gentle femdom. My own version of this includes sensory play, mental play, body worship, domestic service etc. But excludes impact play, pegging, degrading and ***. Do you have any advice or tips for a new domme in these areas?
Deleted Member Posted May 20, 2022 Posted May 20, 2022 Hi. I would really recommend not ruling out impact play. Impact can be very gentle indeed and become part of sensory scenes. For example, just using the tips of a flogger as you run them over the thighs or back, taking a heavy paddle and using it in temperature play etc. Patting the skin with one's hand and stroking it between pats. These are all impact methods with a gentle manner. Message if you want to ask more, I am a sensualist Domme. x
wi**** Posted May 20, 2022 Posted May 20, 2022 Chastity and orgasm control come to mind, as well as subtle things like picking outfits. Some of these carry some manner of *** with them and the fact that you might demand them without actually pointing that out might even increase the impact because being told or ***d into breaking through their shame can be one of the most powerful displays of consent.
tazz6988 Posted May 20, 2022 Posted May 20, 2022 Very good and interesting n I'm going to check out evie lupine tomorrow thanks ladies
sv**** Posted May 20, 2022 Author Posted May 20, 2022 6 hours ago, MissMimiNyx said: Hi. I would really recommend not ruling out impact play. Impact can be very gentle indeed and become part of sensory scenes. For example, just using the tips of a flogger as you run them over the thighs or back, taking a heavy paddle and using it in temperature play etc. Patting the skin with one's hand and stroking it between pats. These are all impact methods with a gentle manner. Message if you want to ask more, I am a sensualist Domme. x I'm only ruling out the sadism/masochism. I live with chronic *** and I don't want to inflict *** on others right now. Who knows, that may change with experience š
sv**** Posted May 20, 2022 Author Posted May 20, 2022 6 hours ago, Charms said: Check out evie lupine on YouTube I think I've watched all of her videos š
Deleted Member Posted May 20, 2022 Posted May 20, 2022 Knowing your limits. āNot engaging in impact playā for example. Is important. Just as learning your submissive limits. As well as mutual kinks. If your limit is hard. Then say it out right so you donāt get a person who will be let down at not getting the impact play they deserve. Some people say they are a gentle Dom, Domme cause they donāt realize the *** is wanted. Masochists need love too. š¤£ and so I recommend analyzing the why if your limit and see if itās a hard limit. Or simply something to work with a sub on. So see where your boundaries are. For me. I discovered Iām ok inflicting *** but my hard limit is drawing ***. I wonāt go that far. Hope this helps you on your journey.
sv**** Posted May 20, 2022 Author Posted May 20, 2022 17 minutes ago, Sir-or-Daddy said: Knowing your limits. āNot engaging in impact playā for example. Is important. Just as learning your submissive limits. As well as mutual kinks. If your limit is hard. Then say it out right so you donāt get a person who will be let down at not getting the impact play they deserve. Some people say they are a gentle Dom, Domme cause they donāt realize the *** is wanted. Masochists need love too. š¤£ and so I recommend analyzing the why if your limit and see if itās a hard limit. Or simply something to work with a sub on. So see where your boundaries are. For me. I discovered Iām ok inflicting *** but my hard limit is drawing ***. I wonāt go that far. Hope this helps you on your journey. Dominant limits in my case š
Deleted Member Posted May 23, 2022 Posted May 23, 2022 Yay!!! Yay and more Yay.... welcome to the femdom delighfulness. I started out not being into very much and now I'm diving into everything.... even started to looking into medical training so I can do body piercing (takes time) ... just build slowly, with good connections and a sense of humility and open curiousity and you can't go far wrong. I bet you'll be a monstrously wonderful domme in no time!
sv**** Posted May 23, 2022 Author Posted May 23, 2022 6 hours ago, swphoenix said: Yay!!! Yay and more Yay.... welcome to the femdom delighfulness. I started out not being into very much and now I'm diving into everything.... even started to looking into medical training so I can do body piercing (takes time) ... just build slowly, with good connections and a sense of humility and open curiousity and you can't go far wrong. I bet you'll be a monstrously wonderful domme in no time! I am naturally curious and I love to learn new things š Thanks
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