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[Deleted Member]

Got a bf recently but the sex is mediocre at best. He says he’s trying his best and I believe him but I miss the crazy sex stories I used to have. I know I can’t cheat on him but is having someone play with and torture my navel really cheating?

[Wo****]

For me personally, yes its cheating if done without his knowledge. Can you not talk to him about it?

[Lord_Talion]

That depends on what your bf says

[Deleted Member]

Teach him make it a nice sexy session for you both communicate.

[Wi****]

On 7/7/2022 at 1:22 AM, Amy887 said:

Got a bf recently but the sex is mediocre at best. He says he’s trying his best and I believe him but I miss the crazy sex stories I used to have. I know I can’t cheat on him but is having someone play with and torture my navel really cheating?

Is there any reason why you couldn't show him what you like. Commicate and show each other what you like, I'm sure he's has a bit of anxiety about pleasing you. Having a fulfilling sex life involves trust. 

[Le****]

Take his hands and physically show him all your hot spots. As previously mentioned, communicate is key.. talk him thru it lol and once learned perhaps them is won't be such a strain and can continue to be freaky lol

[ey****]

if you're asking if something is cheating; it probably is.

ask your boyfriend if it's cheating and then you'll have the boundaries