Sl**** Posted July 23, 2022 Posted July 23, 2022 So on your average dating app you have people who don’t know much about BDSM, people who pretend they know a lot/ wanna know more, or people who like to hear stuff about it. I recently had a chat with someone again on an outside BDSM app (they are gone now haha) but they seemed to be interested in stuff in my profile like knife play and DDLG/MDLB dynamics and stuff I put on there. They had the feeling it was mostly just choking and ropes which I understand someone who’s watched a BDSM style movie would not see quite deep dynamics? (Not sure) They were asking many questions and I was answering best I could without scaring them away but they asked a lot of questions where the answers would be quite like.. forward “so how do you imagine knife play to be like?” Etc stuff which is quite a personal imagination/ experience. I think after answering a few questions they ran off, unmatched and done. I dunno they seemed quite really cool until they started asking about the sex/BDSM stuff and I thought honestly I had lost a potential really cool friend (I didn’t see them as a potential partner as they didn’t really match me in that way but a bond of really good vast interests and some differences that we had.