Things poser "Doms" have put me thru

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Anyone who comes on extremely strong trying to be my dom daddy master you name it I laugh at them and lose all respect just be normal and say hi to me.

[my****]

Not setting up safe words is the matador’s cape of red flags in a D/s dynamic. M/s in my opinion is different. Regardless you should be well versed in one another before you get there. I also institute a grab for gagged situations. Squeezing three quick times is a safeword.

[Cy****]

you know I never considered myself a Dom, bit the reality is I seldom don't get what I want ,most times freely given without reservation so do I have a dominate personality or am I just more than average in convicing

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1 hour ago, ellsworth656938 said:

you know I never considered myself a Dom, bit the reality is I seldom don't get what I want ,most times freely given without reservation so do I have a dominate personality or am I just more than average in convicing

Most Doms don't choose to be. They just are.

You may be a natural Dom, or you could be a good salesman. Always remember though, domineering is different than Dominant.

[Bl****]

Friday at 08:28 AM, mythicalman said:

Not setting up safe words is the matador’s cape of red flags in a D/s dynamic. M/s in my opinion is different. Regardless you should be well versed in one another before you get there. I also institute a grab for gagged situations. Squeezing three quick times is a safeword.

I even suggest snapping fingers since a grab could be misconstrued.

[Ta****]

I am sorry you went through this…it’s a dance not a command in reality you as the “sub” hold all the power. You allow someone the honor of taking control in a safe space where the dom role is to bring you pleasure yes there is control but there always your physical emotional and mental health that has to be protected. Always remember you are in control and anyone who doesn’t respect your boundaries fuck them they are not doms…just ass holes not worthy of you queen