No**** Posted January 6 Respectfully and friendly. Don’t ask me about me kinks and experience first message. Please acknowledge me first before you inquire on the personal information and give me a nickname.
On**** Posted January 9 Something honest, that establishes a the first layer of respect & safety, but with a hint O' flirtification.😁*Ding!*
to**** Posted January 11 Build the respect and trust. I don’t want to think, but if I don’t trust you then I’m not going to let you make my decisions anywhere.
Deleted Member Posted January 11 There are a lot of different views here but the key themes seem to be: respect me and read my profile. Any decent Dom should be able to do this.
No**** Posted January 12 13 hours ago, toledo957269 said: Build the respect and trust. I don’t want to think, but if I don’t trust you then I’m not going to let you make my decisions anywhere. I agree 100%. Respect and trust are earned, not inherent. Both require maintenance.
My**** Posted January 16 Respect. 100% I’m a human not a piece of meat in a display case and that’s genuinely what it feels like on any app. Not just this one.
da**** Posted January 22 Confidence is sexy. Be dominant but note that I'm not your sub until we've actually met.amd.gotten to know each other a bit
Deleted Member Posted February 3 With respect. Unsolicited d pics or a basic "I can fill you" is boring. If you start off with a question that could easily be found in my bio shows you didn't/can't read. Oh and a "show me a pic" without a basic hello shows me youre shallow. Too many people reach out to subs especially women subs. So if you can wow me, I've just stopped paying attention.
Deleted Member Posted February 4 Mmm as more people reach out I'll have to say that everyone on here see us sub as a piece of meat. You're not special by making a generic "I wanna tie you up and fill you". Like good to know you can read a sentence but can you see me as a human too? Did you read anything else on the page? Do you see just meat or a person? If I think you just want me as meat, I'm not interested. If you see me as a person first (which should be obvious) then I'd be more invested in being your play thing because you can separate the act of having fun and being a human. We can build more of a bond without just sex. And for me that's what turns me on the most. Does that make sense?
ro**** Posted February 15 I like dudes who are shy at first but then really take it to me when they see me acting cocky
Slave4you81 Posted February 17 Anything that's more than just... hey.. You can get away with a hey message easily but you need a full profile first, give the replyer somethingto go on. I'll happily put the work in but I do hate one word answers and texts.
lo**** Posted February 18 Ideal opener is concise, polite, and indicates what they're interested in. If they just think I'm hot or whatever, that's fine, but I personally dislike unnecessary small talk and would rather talk about our interests and what we like.
be**** Posted February 23 I expect to see a face and a profile that tells me something about the person to get a bit background info, and that’s not necessarily about the kinks but about the person. i don’t reply to faceless profiles and one-word „hey“ messages. Also appreciate a non-sexual approach as in real life if we’d meet randomly i want to be treated like a person, not an object.
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