Popular Post CopperKnob Posted November 21, 2022 Popular Post Posted November 21, 2022 I often receive messages from faceless avatars with no profile descriptions to speak of. Gaceless profiles regularly invite me out for a drink. They ask for nudes. They request hook-ups and make thinly veiled requests for wank fodder. What they don’t do is share anything about themselves. Women are hard up these days, you know. We’ll 🦆 anyone who claims to own a 🍆 Women are not that complicated. We aren't really from Venus. We have jobs. We have pets and family to take care of and friends to see. We have approximately 8 hours left to spare from our working week, so we don’t waste them on asking questions of internet strangers who haven't given us any hint of who they are. It’s less about the fact that you’ve brought us an empty profile, and more about the fact that you’re too unmotivated to fill it out. That empty page tells me a hundred things about your character. Those things may be true, and they may not, but until you indicate otherwise, here's what your blank profile says: “I’m a chancer who’s unwilling to put any effort whatever into the people I message because I'm only interested in a one time hook up. I feel so strongly about bringing nothing to the table that I’ve sat with an empty profile for years and not once felt moved to fill it out. Just bring your vagina along on our date, and I’ll be happy. Anyway, I sent you a “hiiii” which is all you need to clear away a couple of hours out of your busy schedule to meet me. By the way, the complete lack of ducks I’ve demonstrated here leaks into all areas of my life. I dropped out of school due to perpetual disinterest, and now I mostly just hang out in my gaming chair all day. I don’t even have enough energy to level up my Minecraft more than twice, but shit, was that a dragon I just heard?” I’ve confronted a couple of empty profiles in my time, and they’ve told me they’ll answer any questions I have, so no problemo. The trouble is that you’re the ones asking for my attention, not the other way around. I'm not going to message back unless you motivate me to, even if that entails asking you who you are and what you love. I need to level up in my own hobbies. I have my own dragons to slay so I just don't have the time to drag information out of faceless fet entities. If we go along with the rhetoric here, Fet is a highly competitive space for cishet men. Women receive enough unsolicited messages to fill a set of encyclopedias. So you have to bring an actual personality to her inbox. As a gender, we’re really into meeting up with people who take the time to connect with us, but maybe it’s more important that you go kill that dragon? Unfortunately, we need to make the time to kill it too, so we prefer responding to men who have profile descriptions and messages that scream effort.
Du**** Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 Can every man who wants to DM me please read this first? I’d be grateful, and it will save both of us from wasting our time. Oh, and - if I decline, don’t embarrass yourself by [checks inbox] offering me ***. That’s just… desperate. Thanks, Copperknob 😘
sm**** Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 I simply don't respond to an empty profile, why should any sane person. Lack of information or even an attempt at describing yourself, likes, dislikes is sheer laziness and shows you their contempt for the person they are contacting. I have no problems with empty profiles viewing, we are all curious, but if you need to contact someone or actually peek another's interest, they need to put some effort in, if they can't be bothered shows me they can't do the same in a relationship or wanting to get to communicate in a two way manner. Hiding behind a blank and saying "oh ill answer anything" is a big red flag, from both sexes.
Du**** Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 5 minutes ago, smeagol said: I simply don't respond to an empty profile, why should any sane person. Lack of information or even an attempt at describing yourself, likes, dislikes is sheer laziness and shows you their contempt for the person they are contacting. I have no problems with empty profiles viewing, we are all curious, but if you need to contact someone or actually peek another's interest, they need to put some effort in, if they can't be bothered shows me they can't do the same in a relationship or wanting to get to communicate in a two way manner. Hiding behind a blank and saying "oh ill answer anything" is a big red flag, from both sexes. Ha ha, exactly 😆 that “just ask me” falls down on two points: 1. If I wanted to ask, I would 2. I don’t want to
Deleted Member Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 Faceless avatars! Maybe they want to bring a little mystery to you :)
Deleted Member Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 Ps, I think you will find the faceless avatar thing is a bit more prevalent with the female of the species. So imagine how the chaps feel :)
PurpleSarah Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 I don’t think I need to add the that , you said it all and put it well 👏👏
Deleted Member Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 But you don't have any full face pictures either. Isn't that the pot calling the the kettle black?
Zela Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 38 minutes ago, DaddyBear63 said: Ps, I think you will find the faceless avatar thing is a bit more prevalent with the female of the species. So imagine how the chaps feel :) Yes but she’s refering to empty profile descriptions
Deleted Member Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 Just now, HeavyHanded said: But you don't have any full face pictures either. Isn't that the pot calling the the kettle black? Who? Me?
Deleted Member Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 Lost count how many messages i have sent to women, they then reply back, but then all of a sudden I cannot communicate with them as the site says they are verifying the persons profile only for them to be crossed off my msg list for not being genuine. It goes both ways, and because alot of guys on here are simps or certainly act that way from comments they leave beneath pics it plays into the game alot of women play on this site which is being a thirst trap to get likes and some sort of validation without any intention of messaging back a genuine guy who DMs them and doesnt just simply simp. Trust when I say women have it easy on dating apps (including this one) compared to guys.
Deleted Member Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 Just now, Zela said: Yes but she’s refering to empty profile descriptions Oh yes, there are loads. I can only comment on the young ladies, but I have seen a fair few. To me, seems a bit silly, to put a profile on the site with no information
Zela Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 Yes, oh my goodness YES! Plus I’d add: I’ve taken the time to write a description detailing who I am, what I’m looking for and what my lints are. Please for the love of your biggest dildo, do not ask me a question when the answer is on my profile. In fact, use the information on my profile to engage and capture my attention. Zela out!
Du**** Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 5 minutes ago, HeavyHanded said: But you don't have any full face pictures either. Isn't that the pot calling the the kettle black? I don’t want to speak for OP, but for me the issue is not actually whether an account has face pics or not. I don’t have any, and I don’t mind if others don’t either. However I do take care to make sure that my personality is on show (even more so in my private pics). I expect the same from anyone with whom I communicate - and it’s worth noting that mere abs and crotch shots are *not* an adequate substitute for a personality…
Deleted Member Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 3 minutes ago, Tommo6989 said: Lost count how many messages i have sent to women, they then reply back, but then all of a sudden I cannot communicate with them as the site says they are verifying the persons profile only for them to be crossed off my msg list for not being genuine. It goes both ways, and because alot of guys on here are simps or certainly act that way from comments they leave beneath pics it plays into the game alot of women play on this site which is being a thirst trap to get likes and some sort of validation without any intention of messaging back a genuine guy who DMs them and doesnt just simply simp. Trust when I say women have it easy on dating apps (including this one) compared to guys. That seems to be the truth of it. Men have to put a hell of a lot more effort in. Women without a paid profile seem to get quite a few concessions us poor chaps do not.
se**** Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 4 minutes ago, Tommo6989 said: alot of guys on here are simps or certainly act that way from comments they leave beneath pics. I already figured this out.😅 Most compliments are taken "one ear in and other out". I am sure there are nice men writing to women, but I got mostly 100 charcters that can be a copy and paste. At this moment, I would be grateful for a " Hello or Hi" added to the message.with men in Germany.😂
Ga**** Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 If it empty and wrong how can I correct it please ?
se**** Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 (edited) 22 minutes ago, DuchessFeuille said: I don’t want to speak for OP, but for me the issue is not actually whether an account has face pics or not. I don’t have any, and I don’t mind if others don’t either. However I do take care to make sure that my personality is on show (even more so in my private pics). I expect the same from anyone with whom I communicate - and it’s worth noting that mere abs and crotch shots are *not* an adequate substitute for a personality… You asked fair. A guy asked secret gallery pic. I pointed out he had more of an idea of me, then I did (bare chest). He sent me a message "We were not compatible, and all the best/luck". Edited November 21, 2022 by kiseu
Du**** Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 26 minutes ago, Tommo6989 said: Lost count how many messages i have sent to women, they then reply back, but then all of a sudden I cannot communicate with them as the site says they are verifying the persons profile only for them to be crossed off my msg list for not being genuine. It goes both ways, and because alot of guys on here are simps or certainly act that way from comments they leave beneath pics it plays into the game alot of women play on this site which is being a thirst trap to get likes and some sort of validation without any intention of messaging back a genuine guy who DMs them and doesnt just simply simp. Trust when I say women have it easy on dating apps (including this one) compared to guys. If they’re not genuine and they get removed, there’s nothing to complain about. The site is operating exactly as it should.
Deleted Member Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 19 minutes ago, DuchessFeuille said: If they’re not genuine and they get removed, there’s nothing to complain about. The site is operating exactly as it should. I'm not complaining about the removal im complaining about the many fake profiles that are created and it makes u wonder just how many fake profiles go undetected.
Ar**** Posted November 21, 2022 Posted November 21, 2022 Nice analogy, sport 😉 You've reminded me I'm so terrible at humaning sometimes I haven't even ONCE attempted to play Dragon Age since I downloaded it in about 2015...
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