Plus Size - Finding it hard

[De****]

I'm a bigger girl and I'm always getting my profile looked at but no messages

[si****]

11 hours ago, DemonicAnghel75 said:

I'm a bigger girl and I'm always getting my profile looked at but no messages

I don’t know what’s wrong with the Dom’s close to you then…..you should be inundated with messages

[Deleted Member]

It’s very hard.

[Ha****]

It hasn’t been hard to find people who want to play, but the problem is why they want to. A lot of them treat me like an experiment. They reach out with language that makes it obvious they see me as a curiosity because I’m fat, not as a whole person. It’s frustrating, especially since I’m demisexual and don’t do hookups. I want real connection, not someone looking to check a box.

[Ro****]

Im a submissive, BBW, and I have had the issues mentioned in other comments. Just like any other group, there are good ones, sufficient ones, and bad ones. Don't give up finding your way to the right connection because of a few weeds in the wilderness. You'll be glad when you finally do.

[si****]

1 hour ago, RogueLynx said:

Im a submissive, BBW, and I have had the issues mentioned in other comments. Just like any other group, there are good ones, sufficient ones, and bad ones. Don't give up finding your way to the right connection because of a few weeds in the wilderness. You'll be glad when you finally do.

It’s so worth the effort and time of finding the right one isn’t it xx

[Ro****]

2 hours ago, sir21only said:

It’s so worth the effort and time of finding the right one isn’t it xx

Yes indeed and all those who failed before no longer matter

[si****]

14 hours ago, RogueLynx said:

Yes indeed and all those who failed before no longer matter

Very true…..you have to go through a journey I believe until you actually find the one…to find yourself first…..and that works on both sides of a D/s dynamic xx

[To****]

As a Dom, size doesn’t matter to me. It’s the subs mind I’m after. That said I’m particularly attracted to BBW, I adore curves.

Attitude and trust are the straights I most value. Important for her to be emotionally stable. Confidence is sexy and lack there of, or repeated incidents or engagement with narcissists or abusive men, can damage perceptions.

Perhaps you first have to find the man… a real one, one that lifts and encourages, then teach him what you like, need, and crave. Allow him grow into role you desire.

Best of luck in your search, have no doubt he’s out there. Noticed your profile, clearly you have a lot to offer someone, they should be so lucky. As the saying goes, have to kiss a few frogs before finding a prince.