The barriers to finding a D/s dynamic

[Mo****]

While I agree with your observation I would also suggest what a few others have already suggested that is to weed out fakes with some basic tests upfront but in a polite and respectful manner.

I have been in the ls since 2008, private with a sub since 2017 and only came back to the open community last week after she left for Stockholm with her husband; and I do feel a drastic change in 1. Quantity 2. Quality of conversations on various kink community forums. I thought COVID changed how I operated my business but I see that it changed everything, literally everything.

It’s a shame but like everything else, I’m waiting to see the silver lining here!