Kink Date Spoiled?

[Deleted Member]

Works better if you are in Domme mode.

[Bo****]

Yes this true. Been in this situation with my partner but still found a way to make everyone happy.

[Ch****]

Find a person who has no *** of flying the red skies

[ka****]

Time to earn your redwings for him or her

[Ki****]

Who cares about a little ***? Let's f**king go

[Se****]

5 hours ago, SparklingJade said:

We’ve been planning a kink date and my monthly cycle (period) came unexpectedly. Is there anyway to not have to cancel?????

It depends why you feel you need to cancel?

Is it due to the period in and of itself - ie concerns re intimacy and *** loss?

Or, is it that you (like many others) feel grotty and rubbish with your period and don’t really want to leave the house?

Are you emotional? Do you need/want certain home comforts?

Are you concerned about your dates reaction?

Sorry for all the questions, you don’t necessarily need to answer them. The point I’m making is that more context would enable better answers for you.

x

[el****]

I’m sorry as a guy…….I’ll smash it. Bleeding or not. By the time I’m done no more cramps, no more feelings of am I good enough for him. Be a man. Own that red cave and ***t it white.

[Bo****]

As i am no one to to kink shame if you love a ***y dive have at it.

[Th****]

31 minutes ago, ellisville887 said:

I’m sorry as a guy…….I’ll smash it. Bleeding or not. By the time I’m done no more cramps, no more feelings of am I good enough for him. Be a man. Own that red cave and ***t it white.

Does help with cramps 👍

[Th****]

56 minutes ago, FatefulDestiny said:

It depends why you feel you need to cancel?

Is it due to the period in and of itself - ie concerns re intimacy and *** loss?

Or, is it that you (like many others) feel grotty and rubbish with your period and don’t really want to leave the house?

Are you emotional? Do you need/want certain home comforts?

Are you concerned about your dates reaction?

Sorry for all the questions, you don’t necessarily need to answer them. The point I’m making is that more context would enable better answers for you.

x

Oh, good points. Depending on what day it is I way not want to get out of bed or do much of anything but nap. 

Though, nap dates are good too. Bring on the snacks and cuddles and let's watch some zero nutritional value television or a random documentary. 

Edited September 3, 2023 by ThaliaVirago

[Ceejayuk]

As some have mentioned, communication is key, you should be asking your partner, they may want to put off play or they may not care about the ***. (Personally I dont mind)

Also you can have a lot of fun without having penetrative sex, so you can have fun with other play this time and have sex another time.

[am****]

there is a chance that they might like that and then there is time to get plenty of towels and the shower ready x

[Deleted Member]

A good sailor also sails the Red Sea

[wi****]

Delicious cherry pie

[Bl****]

thats not a problem

[Da****]

Shower sex

[Vi****]

Just let him know they are a person with the ability to reason why are embarrassed by nature???

[As****]

If they are a genuine person then just explain to them whats up and they will either be human about it and say possibly “hey no worries do you want to cancel the date and reschedule?” Or they could say “cool no big deal. If you still want it to happen we can modify our expectations and ideas to fit what you want?”

[bu****]

Use a towel 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Deleted Member]

Anal

[ki****]

My ole says is “I can walk through mud and f**k through ***” just go have fun.

[ne****]

Just do anal

[Deleted Member]

Buy soft cups at the pharmacy. Little flexible cups you inserts that catch everything and they go up and right under the cervix and don’t stay in the vaginal canal. They are made to have sex with as well. Can’t feel them and no ***.

[am****]

nice and warm nice to have a shower together after

[Ju****]

Depends on what the kink is. Because remember.... not all kink and bdsm is sex.
But it wouldn't stop me personally. I'd just make him/her aware, I've come on, wear tampons, do other kinds of play, anal or if into it, period sex. Or just keep it non sexual (no intercourse) until its away.

Also want to ask, if this is someone you've met before, vetted and trust? Never good for kink on a first meet. ❤ be safe