avocadoe Posted September 20 Posted September 20 Hello, I'm a sub who's recently just met a very good dom on an online platform, and we are in the process of establishing our d/s relationship. He's the sweetest guy out of the play, he communicates with me a lot and always try to give an impression of "I'll always be here for you so if you want to chat or need me for anything just hit me up" kind of dom, and he always makes time for me despites his busy worklife. During the play, he's the perfect dominant for me as he knows what I want and also push me to do things he knows I want but never got the courage to do it (I fully give him consent for this since this is also what I need). Yet this being my first ever d/s relationship, while he has had a bunch of experiences on his own, I actually want to ask him for more stuffs to do (example: weekly tasks like diary or journals, audios from him, etc) yet I don't know how to convey this as he has done so much for me. The only thing I have the courage to ask for him is a permission when I need to touch/rub myself alone. I actually want to have a deeper connection with him by doing the "cute" stuffs like I mentioned before. What should I do?