Deleted Member Posted September 30, 2019 Posted September 30, 2019 So, I'm a rare case.... I'm aexual, completely sex-repulsed to the point where genitlia overall is triggering for me, yet the DD/LG thing, or at least the dom/sub lifestyle is intriguing? Mostly because alot of my friends say I act like a brat, but... am I the only asexual who feels odd, and almost forbdden for this kind of thing?
Deleted Member Posted September 30, 2019 Author Posted September 30, 2019 11 hours ago, bluegirl02 said: So, I'm a rare case.... I'm aexual, completely sex-repulsed to the point where genitlia overall is triggering for me, yet the DD/LG thing, or at least the dom/sub lifestyle is intriguing? Mostly because alot of my friends say I act like a brat, but... am I the only asexual who feels odd, and almost forbdden for this kind of thing? No need to feel weird. DD/LG, or D/s relationships can be non-sexual without problems. I've heard of few people in such relationships who don't do anything sexual.
Deleted Member Posted June 23, 2021 Author Posted June 23, 2021 Im the same im Asexual, i hate anythink sex related and im also a DDLB, but its harder to find people i think.
Gr**** Posted February 26, 2023 Posted February 26, 2023 Asexuality is a recognized orientation in the Seattle kink scene, despite the fact that occasionally sex play can be found in some dungeons. Mollena Lee Williams-Haas recently had an episode of her All That and Mo podcast called "Why I Hate Sex Parties". While she's not asexual, she confirms that seeing sex on the dungeon floor is rare for all sex-positivity championed in many BDSM circles. At one point, Seattle's Center for Sex Positive Culture had a party called, I think, Werk Lounge, put on by a member who hated watching people have sex. She hung opaque to semi-opaque fabrics from the ceiling to create little play spaces for people who wanted to get loud and / or do pick-up play, but who weren't exhibitionists. I didn't like her music choices, but otherwise found the setting lovely. Not everyone combines sex and BDSM, though I know of a fair amount of people who consider sex to be part of aftercare - so that's definitely a point to negotiate.
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