BDSM Dating in Cheltenham

I'm 43, single. I'm a submissive looking for the right lifestyle Dominant who will help me explore my limits, share my interests and open my mind further, within a Dom/sub dynamic. I want to learn how to be the best submissive I can be for the right man. I want to be used by him for his pleasure but know without doubt I am cherished and cared for. I would give myself to him freely if I trust him to know me, to respect my limits, and above all keep me safe so I can let go and be free. I have met plenty of players and horny boys on here and elsewhere. I'm not looking for an FWB, hook ups or casual sex. I will only consider a man who doesn't already have a sub. I'm not interested in being a part of a group of subs!