BDSM Dating in Cardiff

Can I help, new to this, unsure, need to talk intelligently to somebody who's been around a long time? Feel free to get in touch.
For Me: I'd like to find a partner who would like to practice ASMR on me, I've really got into it. Alternatively, sit on my face and let me make you cum, you don't have to reciprocate.
Distance up to, say, 120 miles no problem, further if you are near a railway station. Reach out and make contact if you are interested to find out more.
I'm a very open minded older guy.
Probably a bit of a hedonist, certainly like the finer things in life, all of which are better enjoyed in company. I have just drunk my 150th bottle of champagne, who wants to drink the 151st with me?