BDSM Dating in Oakland

Looking for a playmate to help me achieve a lifelong fantasy that I’ve had for most of my life now lol. I have this fetish that involves using a certain object on one’s unclothed body to stimulate themselves, and I wanna get the experience of doing this with a girl my age, first her, then us together. Then we bang. If this piques your curiosity, HMU right away!! 😏