BDSM Dating in Berrien Springs

Hello! I’m new to this scene so excuse my awkwardness I’m unsure how to do all this haha! But I’ve been having a frustration lately with two things- wanting people I can chat to about all the nerdy things and have a great time being friendly, and then also wanting to be, well, dominated? By a man possibly much bigger then me and either praised or degraded to hell and back! I have so many things I want to try but I am an amateur and virgin so I don’t wanna be too much for someone to teach and show me all the things they’d want to/ I want them to, mutual of course! And hell maybe even find someone who’d maybe wanna be lovey especially with aftercare- maybe find someone who’d wanna be both things, a nerd with me and wanna make me forget my own name in bed? :collar: (Was that too much lol? I don’t know aaaa-)