Other people have described me as: “authentic, genuine, caring, quirky, fun, silly, creative, excitable, attitude, loud, nerd-adjacent, mind always in the gutter, brat, tease, responsive, blow job queen, addictive” I describe me as: 80’s Jersey Girl, authentic, genuine, caring, quirky, silly, dork, creative, introvert, cuddle slut, sensual, good girl with bratty tendencies, responsive, skilled at bjs. I am solo polyamorous/relationship anarchist. I have four partners, all of whom are non-nesting. Two are local partners who I see about once a week or so, and two are out of state partners who I see a couple times a year. I am not interested in living with/becoming traditionally enmeshed with any partners, nor am interested in kitchen table poly. What I’m looking for (general): Long-term play partner to go to parties/dungeons/events with, open to the possibility of it becoming a romantic relationship. Must be able to communicate intelligently, be respectful, naturally take the lead, initiate, be enthusiastic and eager to spend time together. Even-tempered, bearded, tattooed, Dad-bod nerds who love to cook are my “type”. What I’m looking for (kink specific): I am not interested in a 24/7 dynamic. I am interested in Impact & rope top/brat tamer. I’m a smart ass & sassy, until I get put in my place, then I’m a good girl, mostly. I like thuddy impact that leaves bruises - floggers are my favorite, but I also like paddles, thick canes, and chains. I like rope both as decorative and as restraints. Not interested in rope suspension. I like being restrained in general, whether it’s cuffed spread eagle to a bed so I can’t move at all, or partially restrained with rope so the top has to move me/keep me steady. I like ***d orgasms from multiple toys. I like sensory deprivation & hot/cold sensory play. I want to explore more with electro play. I want to try wax play, fire cupping, fire flogging, and primal play. I am interested in trying role play - specifically vampire, werewolf, and Krampus.

Other people have described me as: “authentic, genuine, caring, quirky, fun, silly, creative, excitable, attitude, loud, nerd-adjacent, mind always in the gutter, brat, tease, responsive, blow job queen, addictive” I describe me as: 80’s Jersey Girl, authentic, genuine, caring, quirky, silly, dork, creative, introvert, cuddle slut, sensual, good girl with bratty tendencies, responsive, skilled at bjs. I am solo polyamorous/relationship anarchist. I have four partners, all of whom are non-nesting. Two are local partners who I see about once a week or so, and two are out of state partners who I see a couple times a year. I am not interested in living with/becoming traditionally enmeshed with any partners, nor am interested in kitchen table poly. What I’m looking for (general): Long-term play partner to go to parties/dungeons/events with, open to the possibility of it becoming a romantic relationship. Must be able to communicate intelligently, be respectful, naturally take the lead, initiate, be enthusiastic and eager to spend time together. Even-tempered, bearded, tattooed, Dad-bod nerds who love to cook are my “type”. What I’m looking for (kink specific): I am not interested in a 24/7 dynamic. I am interested in Impact & rope top/brat tamer. I’m a smart ass & sassy, until I get put in my place, then I’m a good girl, mostly. I like thuddy impact that leaves bruises - floggers are my favorite, but I also like paddles, thick canes, and chains. I like rope both as decorative and as restraints. Not interested in rope suspension. I like being restrained in general, whether it’s cuffed spread eagle to a bed so I can’t move at all, or partially restrained with rope so the top has to move me/keep me steady. I like ***d orgasms from multiple toys. I like sensory deprivation & hot/cold sensory play. I want to explore more with electro play. I want to try wax play, fire cupping, fire flogging, and primal play. I am interested in trying role play - specifically vampire, werewolf, and Krampus.