BDSM Dating in Lexington

So i don't know how to go about this ive never had a chance to experience or explore any of it and ot just kinda happened so it's new to me. Not really dom but confident female that know has to tease *** not actual sex involved and enjoys being the most incredible baddest bish ever.. I dunno why I post no ones intrested in doing this with me..too ugly? Idk