I have always kinda circled the lifestyle. I enjoy many facets of the lifestyle, usually in being a pleaser. I do like pics and teasing. I can talk in depth about many things, and having a connection on some level is important before I just mess a round with someone. I dont have a lot of free time so if I give you some of it, respect that. im not actively looking for anything. im trying to relearn myself before I lose myself in another person.

I’ve been married for 20 years and am bored and unsatisfied. I was recently approached by a younger man who was into bdsm and it got me intrigued. We sexted for a while but never ended up doing anything in person, but now I’m curious. The sexting was exciting, so I want to learn more and see if this is the lifestyle for me. So far though, I am realizing that I am leaning towards being a Dom. I am tired of being the one doing all of the work trying to please a man. I am so over that. That’s why I’m here. I need to be the one who is catered to and satisfied. My pleasure should come first. If you please me, then I may reward you with doing something that you want or enjoy, depending on what it is, of course. The only problem is that sub males tend to have small cocks, so that’s no bueno, and I don’t really care for the cuckhold idea. So I guess the best solution is finding someone who is a switch maybe. 🤔

I have always kinda circled the lifestyle. I enjoy many facets of the lifestyle, usually in being a pleaser. I do like pics and teasing. I can talk in depth about many things, and having a connection on some level is important before I just mess a round with someone. I dont have a lot of free time so if I give you some of it, respect that. im not actively looking for anything. im trying to relearn myself before I lose myself in another person.

I’ve been married for 20 years and am bored and unsatisfied. I was recently approached by a younger man who was into bdsm and it got me intrigued. We sexted for a while but never ended up doing anything in person, but now I’m curious. The sexting was exciting, so I want to learn more and see if this is the lifestyle for me. So far though, I am realizing that I am leaning towards being a Dom. I am tired of being the one doing all of the work trying to please a man. I am so over that. That’s why I’m here. I need to be the one who is catered to and satisfied. My pleasure should come first. If you please me, then I may reward you with doing something that you want or enjoy, depending on what it is, of course. The only problem is that sub males tend to have small cocks, so that’s no bueno, and I don’t really care for the cuckhold idea. So I guess the best solution is finding someone who is a switch maybe. 🤔