I’m looking for a real, monogamous relationship. I don’t want casual sex, FWB, a situationship, play partner or poly/ENM. I have found it’s near impossible to discuss kink without it immediately turning into a sexting/sex fantasy talk or the person assuming sex is immediately on the table…especially in the vanilla dating world. Part of the problem I know is I have a dirty mind, a smart mouth, and love to tease, flirt and joke with innuendo. But I love the build up of that. Getting into what’s between my ears is the way to get in between my legs. I need to feel secure with emotional intimacy before we get to physical intimacy. With a D/s dynamic I find this even more true. I LIKE sex. A lot. But I want someone who loves me for who I am, not just what dirty, kinky, depraved things I can do for them in bed. 😈 I love the D/s dynamic, but have found I want the romantic, caring, soft, daddy/sensual/soft Dom type. I like being told what to do in bed but if you want me to treat you as my king and submit, you should expect to treat me like your queen. We are equals in the relationship. Also, I’ve been described as a “brat” but I don’t see myself as such. I am playful, sassy, and a smart-ass with a smart mouth. I’m not looking to be punished for that. I’m looking for someone who enjoys that. “Make me” is an invitation and challenge. I recognize I am both hyper-independent but desperately want someone willing to “put me in my place“ and take care of me despite my protests that I don’t need help. I don’t love ***, but I can tolerate some. I prefer roughness and firmness over actual ***.

down to earth spunky , non judgemental, never say never outlook! comically sarcastic .. enjoy being around kind hearted good energy personalities .. no energy vampires

down to earth spunky , non judgemental, never say never outlook! comically sarcastic .. enjoy being around kind hearted good energy personalities .. no energy vampires

I’m looking for a real, monogamous relationship. I don’t want casual sex, FWB, a situationship, play partner or poly/ENM. I have found it’s near impossible to discuss kink without it immediately turning into a sexting/sex fantasy talk or the person assuming sex is immediately on the table…especially in the vanilla dating world. Part of the problem I know is I have a dirty mind, a smart mouth, and love to tease, flirt and joke with innuendo. But I love the build up of that. Getting into what’s between my ears is the way to get in between my legs. I need to feel secure with emotional intimacy before we get to physical intimacy. With a D/s dynamic I find this even more true. I LIKE sex. A lot. But I want someone who loves me for who I am, not just what dirty, kinky, depraved things I can do for them in bed. 😈 I love the D/s dynamic, but have found I want the romantic, caring, soft, daddy/sensual/soft Dom type. I like being told what to do in bed but if you want me to treat you as my king and submit, you should expect to treat me like your queen. We are equals in the relationship. Also, I’ve been described as a “brat” but I don’t see myself as such. I am playful, sassy, and a smart-ass with a smart mouth. I’m not looking to be punished for that. I’m looking for someone who enjoys that. “Make me” is an invitation and challenge. I recognize I am both hyper-independent but desperately want someone willing to “put me in my place“ and take care of me despite my protests that I don’t need help. I don’t love ***, but I can tolerate some. I prefer roughness and firmness over actual ***.