BDSM Dating in Philadelphia

I’m completely new to BDSM and looking for a woman who can help me to explore the BDSM lifestyle. My goal is to find a monogamous relationship that’s built on trust and love. I’m mostly looking for someone who is dominant or switch. You can be submissive only, if you’re looking for something long-term as well. I don’t mind if you’re from another country or state. Please note that I have a disability.