The toughest choice: be a good girl and do as I'm told, or be a brat and get the punishment I'm secretly hoping for. I've been married for 18 years. I am polyamorous and wanting a relationship outside of my marriage. Please read this before messaging me so neither of us waste our time. I am looking for a true, long term relationship (I'm not looking to replace my husband). While sex is almost always fun, I need serious commitment or it won't be happening!!! I'm old fashion and can wait as long as needed til I feel a connection with you. Bonus points if you believe chivalry isn't dead! Please do not jump into my inbox and immediately start talking about sexual things, it don't impress me, it will get you blocked! If you have read all of this, please mention the word "blue" in your first message to me, otherwise, I probably wont respond.

The toughest choice: be a good girl and do as I'm told, or be a brat and get the punishment I'm secretly hoping for. I've been married for 18 years. I am polyamorous and wanting a relationship outside of my marriage. Please read this before messaging me so neither of us waste our time. I am looking for a true, long term relationship (I'm not looking to replace my husband). While sex is almost always fun, I need serious commitment or it won't be happening!!! I'm old fashion and can wait as long as needed til I feel a connection with you. Bonus points if you believe chivalry isn't dead! Please do not jump into my inbox and immediately start talking about sexual things, it don't impress me, it will get you blocked! If you have read all of this, please mention the word "blue" in your first message to me, otherwise, I probably wont respond.