BDSM Dating in Edmonds

Do not mean to sound desperate but here goes. I have fantasized about being a sub since puberty, did not actively looked for a Domme due to not knowing how or where. Lately it seems when I do look I find scammers that just want Applepay cards and not meeting. So how does 1 find a serious Domme? Please help a sub out. 🫣🫣