BDSM Dating in Seattle

Looking for good chats that lead to slow burns to kinky dates. Must be ok with married men, of course! I'm a quick-witted goofball, trying to balance dad jokes with being serious. Loving, and caring, I love to make my partners feel good not just physically but emotionally as well. I like going out for cocktails, exploring Seattle & Tacoma, and do a lot of woodworking at home.