Seeking a masochistic or self harmer, who needs that buzz from a Dom. Little or no permanent marking, unless discussed and agreed to. More a lover who wants a mind fuck more than a physical one. I use lots of bindings, chains, soft and rough ropes,edge play, tailored inflicting (NO is NO).Riding crops, floggers, wooden spoons, vaginal lip spreaders, electrical charges,role play,oral sex, vaginal insertions, piss play NO SCAT,***S OR KIDS.