Hellooo~ I’m Amara, a kinky bisexual, British Caribbean Black girl who **loves** cumshots and tributes. Pretty much sums me up, haha! ?
A few things to note:
This is not my rodeo on Fet.
I know what I’m looking for and what I offer so this is a very lengthy profile. Buckle up!
If you cannot reach the bottom of this profile, I guarantee you will not be able to handle my level of communication in a relationship. ✌
If you don’t fit within the hard limits, please don’t bother DMing. It will save us both the time!
If you’re within the flexible limit, shoot your shot and let’s see if our personality matches. : )
Let’s start with you and what I’m hoping you’re like:
- Caucasian (hard limit) - American or Australian (soft limit)
- Ideally around the ages of 38-52~ (soft limit with some wiggle room. My preference is mid to late 40s though!)
- (Anyone under 30 is an automatic hard pass for conversation)
- Single (HARD LIMIT. No married guys and, for now, no ENMs/Polys. I’m a greedy little gremlin and I’m not looking to share at the moment! ?).
- Monogamous with the open mindedness for *potentially* opening the bedroom up for one-off play sessions or house parties. This would be with mutually picked partners but in the waaay off future.
- I have a huuuge weakness for men with accents. The Californian accent, the Southern drawl and the Australian twang especially is like an instant boarding pass to inside my panties.
- Not overly muscular nor extremely weighty in build. I do genuinely like a little bit of a dad bod! ♥️
- Smaller physical attributes (hair colour, eye colour etc.) don’t really matter to me though I would prefer a little bit of hair (though not completely bald/shaved). It gives something to grip on to! Not entirely a dealbreaker, however, if there is a great connection.
Due to the nature of Fet, I’m not planning on sharing a full-on selfie early on but I will reveal it slowly over time with the right person. Plus, semi-anonymous play IS one of my kinks! It really adds to the hotness for me. ?
For now, here’s a description of me:
- 26 years old, 5’2”.
- Light-skinned, British Caribbean black female.
- Dark brown eyes.
- Curly dark brown hair. Both almost look black unless I’m in the sun where the true colour shines through.
- 180lbs and declining (thanks to 75Hard!)
- Ample bosom and butt (thanks to genetics!).
- Ears pierced, no tattoos.
- Never married, zero kids.
- UK based
My personality and some things that I enjoy:
**The Vanilla Stuff**
- Demisexual, Sapiosexual, Bisexual.
- Insomniac so I’m often up at weird hours of the night.
- Video games. I have the majority of all the consoles so let’s play something sometime!
- VERY Amateur Woodworking.
- Woods and forests for strolls, hikes and non-vanilla things.
- Would love to try my hand at cosplay next year and I already have the perfect outfits in mind! 70s Ororo Munroe (X-Men Storm), Teen Titans (Original) Rachel Roth (Raven), Shego from Kim Possible, Tifa Lockhart from Final Fantasy.
- I LOVE asking and receiving questions; and, as you can see from this profile, I adore lengthy messages so please be inquisitive and talkative! There’s a lot of conversation starters here to choose from if you’re stuck.
**The Kinkier Stuff**
- ✨ Brat / Submissive / Accidental Occasional Domme / Middle (DDMG) ✨
You don’t have to like all of the same things that I do but having some overlap to talk about would be nice! : )
Here’s a list of some of my interests and things I want to try:
Spanking and other impact play
Choking and other breath play
Collars and gags
Blindfolds and hoods
Restriction/Pinning/Cuffs
Shibari
DDMG
Age gaps
Interracial / Raceplay
CNC
Cock worship
Fucking machines
Suspension/Suspension fucking
**Light** verbal possessive degradation
Photo exchange
Hot candle wax play
**Some** knife play
Public play
Voyeurism
Rutting and Primal
Casual nudity
Freeuse
Orgasm control
Aaaand forced orgasm. Phew!
Okay, now that the bullet points are out of the way… if you’re still here and interested then I’d like to finish up by expressing what I’m looking for in a connection and why.
~ Outside of the bedroom |
I’m hoping that whilst you’re dominant in the bedroom, you have a firm, yet softer, persona outside of the bedroom that allows me to be a bit of a ‘dominant caregiver’.
One of my main ‘love languages’ is acts of service and I tend to autonomously ensure everyone’s needs are met.
Whether it’s making sure you’re fed and your cup is full, keeping up with appointments, upcoming celebrations and gift wrapping to medicine, hot water bottles and head massages when you’re sick.
Now, by no means am I referring to being nothing more than a subservient 1950s housewife stereotype.
I do these things as a show of affection… because I want to, when I want to. NOT out of a sense of obligation and ‘tradition’.
I’m headstrong and will speak my mind. I’m the dominant in my own life and have to be to have gotten where I am plus where I want to get to.
So, I’m not looking for anyone who wants a meek, yes-woman who will wait on them hand and foot…
I’m not looking for someone who wants to ‘tame’ or diminish and pacify the spirit that I have built. But rather I want someone who is looking for their equal.
Someone to gently fan this fire so that we can both be great, together, in our own individual yet harmonious ways…
(Unless, of course, we’re roleplaying then by all means let that misogynistic freak flag fly! ?)
~ Inside the bedroom |
In the bedroom, however, I want you to grab the bull by the horns and put me in my place.
At the end of the day, I’m tired of having to be the strong dominant for everyone else and just want to find someone who will let me melt completely in their open arms.
At last being able to relinquish the remaining shred of my control, fully knowing that I am safe.
~ Brattiness |
I’m a ‘playful’ bratty sub.
My form of ‘disrespect’ is playful teasing and rebellious defiance.
I like to gently poke the bear and run away when it’s finally riled up.
I expect to face the consequences of my actions but that won’t stop me from batting my big, brown eyes at you and pleading for forgiveness… Which you’ll give me because I’m your sweet girl… Sucker. ?
I like to run until I’m caught, kick until I’m pinned and gently nibble until I’m gagged.
~ Adventurous |
My kink list above is by no means exhaustive, with new things being added to it fairly regularly.
Though the list is long, there is still a *large* part of it that is yet to be physically explored.
I’m looking for a safe, reliable space in which to do that with an experienced, patient dominant who is happy to show me the (sometimes literal) ropes.
Mentor me in the experiences I’ve yet to try and guide me in perfecting the things you enjoy most.
I want you to turn me into your personal, custom-made toy.
I’m hoping you’re equally adventurous, wanting to grow and explore new things together.
Toys, outfits, scenes, clubs and hidden gems. There’s a whole world of fun out there to be explored and I’m willing to bet it would be better shared.
~ Relocating |
In regards to long distance and relocating, I’m up for moving to an entirely different country for the right person.
Not at this current point in time but definitely in the future should things progress and remain steady.
My goal has always been to move to either California or Canada so I’ll eventually be in either USA or CA regardless. I’m flexible on where exactly within these countries I’d move to. I could consider Australia for the right person if they were unable to immigrate to the US with me.
But, as an overly ambitious heads-up, should we ever be cohabiting a home together, I fully intend to repurpose a whole room (or basement) into a depraved little playroom, filled with all sorts of devious devices for both to enjoy.
If you’ve made it this far then perhaps you’re the person I’ve been looking for…
If you think so then I’d love to hear from you!
Send me a message, opening with a little bit about yourself like your age, location, SFW interests/hobbies and our NSFW shared interests.
If you made it this far, say: purple cabbages.
You’ll shoot straight to the top of my lookout list. ?