I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.

I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax

I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.

please don’t bother if you’re not single. I like intellect, wit and smarts. If it doesn’t tickle the brain- it’ll bore me fast.

Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.

Hello fellow kinksters! I’m back and dipping my toes into the big bad world of BDSM again after a bit of an absence. While I am new to the Brisbane scene, I am not new to the world of kink/BDSM. I lived in London for 20 years and had a glorious time finding and exploring my kinky side over there. Spent many a night at various fetish clubs and munches with a truly wonderful bunch of kinky friends and playmates. Several longer-term D/s relationships and one ex-husband later I find myself living in Brisbane, hoping to find some similarly perverted IRL friends, play mates or longer-term D/s relationships. In terms of a potential LTR-type connection, if you are looking for a tall, thin, super-fit extrovert who loves hiking, running and going to the gym, I’m probably not the girl for you. If you are looking for a curvy/plus size short arse who is a quirky, curious, experimental, creative dark horse…here I am! For me, the essential aspects in this type of relationship are trust, honesty and having a strong mental connection. The deeper the connection the more I can be challenged. Pushed to my limits. From that starting point, the possibilities are endless... Kinks When I first started exploring the big bad world of BDSM I approached it as a switch, and have experienced most aspects kink as both a Domme and sub. But the more I explored and experienced, the more I realised it is the submissive side of things that truly does it for me. As a sub I always aim to please and be a good girl. I am rarely bratty or disobedient, although I can sometimes be a little cheeky when the mood strikes me. I am also quite masochistic and have been described as a total ***slut on more than one occasion! I enjoy most aspects of BDSM, so it is probably easier to talk about the things I’m not particularly drawn to. While I’ve enjoyed playing with puppies and kittens in Domme mode in the past, I’ve not felt the desire to be the pet myself. Nor have I felt the urge to try the little/adult baby thing. Gags and hoods seem to set off something deeply unpleasant and upsetting, so I tend to avoid them (although blindfolds are fine- go figure!). Kink and sex are deeply connected for me. The way my body reacts sexually to BDSM is quite amazing and intense! But this is not something that is immediately or casually offered. It is, however, immensely enjoyable once trust starts to build and a certain level of comfort is there. A few things to note: - I’m not strictly heterosexual, more heteroflexible. I’m more attracted to personality, intellect and connection rather than sex/gender or outward appearance. - I can be a little socially awkward/shy at first, and am rubbish at small talk, but if we meet and click in real life I may well end up talking your ear off! - If your first message to me is ‘hey,’ ‘how’s your evening’ or something similar I’m unlikely to reply. I’m quite open, honest and direct, and appreciate those who are like-minded in their communication. I think the most interesting bits of life and connection with others lie in our quirks, differences, and vulnerabilities, which often leads to quite deep conversations. So, if that’s not your thing I’m probably not the girl for you! - I am a single mum with an 11 year old. Which is awesome, but it means my time is often taken up doing mum stuff, and I can’t always respond immediately to messages. I also run my own business, which can be a bit feast or famine. When going through a busy patch I may not have time to reply or even check messages on here! - I am a breast cancer survivor (8 years in ‘remission’) and have an auto-immune sleep disorder. This means I experience some fatigue from time-to-time, but I’m determined to not let it stop me living my best kinky life!

New to this ☺️but having a great time exploring so far definitely more of a brat/princess/service sub. I love when my doms spoil me in all the right ways

Hiya! I’m Ivory, I’m 28 ✨🏳️‍🌈🇦🇺 New year, same me! I’m just a little more curvier & navigating life as a chronically ill baddie..🙂‍↕️ aim of the game is friends, not looking for much else. simply not interested

looking to explore with someone respectful and kind, but who can definitely put me in my place :p would love to be tied up.... also enjoy the outdoors, hiking, 4wding, listening to music, and riding horses :)

Bored corporate girly who needs some excitement in her life and loves attention FYI- I don’t live in Brisbane. i just don’t want to disclose my location.

Hello, beautiful people! 🖤✨ I'm Kel, and I'm here to reconnect with the BDSM community, make some new friends, and share a little bit of life along the way. I'm an experienced submissive/brat and masochist, a confident, plus size (16–18), and a firm believer in embracing yourself exactly as you are. Curves, stretch marks, cellulite and all. ✨🦋 Just so we're clear, I'm not looking for a partner or a Dom. i'm here to connect with like-minded people, share stories and experiences, exchange knowledge, have a few laughs, and enjoy being part of a community where people can be themselves. No hidden agenda, no dating applications, and absolutely no auditioning for the role of my next partner. 😂 A few things I enjoy: 💜 Making genuine friendships 🖤 Gothic and alternative people — weird is wonderful! ⛓️ BDSM events and community gatherings 🌈 LGBTQ+ friendly spaces ✨ Good conversations, shared experiences and a healthy dose of dark humour Not my cup of tea: 🚫 Married people or couples 🚫 Poly arrangements 🚫 Casual hookups or one-night stands 🚫 if you're Under 30. I'm always happy to meet people who are open-minded, respectful and comfortable in their own skin. Whether you've got years of experience or stories to share, I'm here for the conversations, the laughs and the connections that don't need to come with romantic expectations. Come as you are, be respectful, and bring a little personality. ✨️

Hello beautiful creatures, we hold conscious kink events around Australia and we would love to invite you to come along 🍒 Find us here: https://www.boundandbeloved.com Our next event is Saturday, Sept 5th in in Tweed Heads, are you coming?! We hope to see you there 😈 Mistress Wolf xx BOUND & BELOVED

Chaotic Neural | Rope Bunny | Dice Goblin ✨I just tighten things and smile✨ fantasy & dark romance reader d&d enthusiast (the only time I dm is at the table) fairy lights > big light

♡ BBW ♡ Not open to ONS, FWB or NSA ♡ Poly and have a nesting partner ♡ I value intelligence and articulation ♡ Hoping to happen across a man with Daddy energy that is emotionally available ♡ Hard no on *** for me I'm a uni student in a STEM degree, an *** lover, a reading enthusiast, lover of learning, advocate for the planet and wildlife, and a kinky girl with a lot of nerd. 😊

PLAY I am not currently seeking any play partners as I have a Top that I'm exploring with FRIENDSHIP I love meeting people and hearing their stories so I will chat to anyone who messages me. My only non-negotiables are that you are polite, and your message is engaging. If you don't feel the need to put any effort into your message, don't expect me to.

A little consumed with regular life at the moment and not frequently checking this platform. I will respond to messages when I have capacity ☺️. Just another kinky soul looking to build and explore new connections. Fall more on the submissive end of the scale. Very much into impact and breath play, and would love to explore restraints more. Looking to build trust and familiarity before jumping straight into the really fun stuff, would say I’m quite demi and need connection. Ideally looking for something a little more serious, or at least ongoing (and very regular) and would love to get more involved in the community and attend events with a partner. Big on communication, honesty, respect and affection.

just a bit of a bunny princess looking for some exploring mostly just like posting fantasies and lurking add my *** ***

New to the scene and exploring BDSM, enjoying the learning process. Friendly, open-minded, and a bit curious by nature.

new to this, never explored it but curious about being in a continuous arrangement daddy dom/submissive/brat dynamic. not hugely into bdsm - some aspects of it have my interest.

femdomme goddess mistress hestara , looking for some living toys to play with i am only into submissive men, which is every man if they were honest with themselves

new to the scene - Say hi? I have zero experience , based on my personality I would be a brat

I only accept people who start their text with Hello/good morning/greetings. I know Berlin often skip a hello and you don't mean any harm but for me, no greeting means no respect. Elegant feminity can be sweet or savage how I assert dominance through photos on IG: *** Dominant Lady, enjoy to be worshiped, served and the finest things in life! I like to control and own the most powerful aspects of life (examples: psychology, material, territory, time etc) Elegantly playful and sadistic. Respecting each other boundaries and consent is paramount. No intimacy. Because it is reserved for loyalty and trust based relationships and the consequence of a deep and long term bond. I value elegance and excellent manners, therefore naked profile photos or any kind of vulgarity will lead to a block without even reading your text. I do NOT have intimacy unless I know a man very well after months and months! Don't text me if you search only for sex, I ll block you directly!

Hey 😊 I'm still somewhat new to all this, but know I lean more into the submissive side of things. Pretty open-minded, and with the right person willing to try different things.

don’t mind me, just looking to chat only and make friends while exploring the kink scene (: i'm not looking to be 'owned' nor do pic exchanges, please respect my boundaries ai selfies, creepy/rude behaviour = blocked

Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.

I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.

I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.

I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax

Hello fellow kinksters! I’m back and dipping my toes into the big bad world of BDSM again after a bit of an absence. While I am new to the Brisbane scene, I am not new to the world of kink/BDSM. I lived in London for 20 years and had a glorious time finding and exploring my kinky side over there. Spent many a night at various fetish clubs and munches with a truly wonderful bunch of kinky friends and playmates. Several longer-term D/s relationships and one ex-husband later I find myself living in Brisbane, hoping to find some similarly perverted IRL friends, play mates or longer-term D/s relationships. In terms of a potential LTR-type connection, if you are looking for a tall, thin, super-fit extrovert who loves hiking, running and going to the gym, I’m probably not the girl for you. If you are looking for a curvy/plus size short arse who is a quirky, curious, experimental, creative dark horse…here I am! For me, the essential aspects in this type of relationship are trust, honesty and having a strong mental connection. The deeper the connection the more I can be challenged. Pushed to my limits. From that starting point, the possibilities are endless... Kinks When I first started exploring the big bad world of BDSM I approached it as a switch, and have experienced most aspects kink as both a Domme and sub. But the more I explored and experienced, the more I realised it is the submissive side of things that truly does it for me. As a sub I always aim to please and be a good girl. I am rarely bratty or disobedient, although I can sometimes be a little cheeky when the mood strikes me. I am also quite masochistic and have been described as a total ***slut on more than one occasion! I enjoy most aspects of BDSM, so it is probably easier to talk about the things I’m not particularly drawn to. While I’ve enjoyed playing with puppies and kittens in Domme mode in the past, I’ve not felt the desire to be the pet myself. Nor have I felt the urge to try the little/adult baby thing. Gags and hoods seem to set off something deeply unpleasant and upsetting, so I tend to avoid them (although blindfolds are fine- go figure!). Kink and sex are deeply connected for me. The way my body reacts sexually to BDSM is quite amazing and intense! But this is not something that is immediately or casually offered. It is, however, immensely enjoyable once trust starts to build and a certain level of comfort is there. A few things to note: - I’m not strictly heterosexual, more heteroflexible. I’m more attracted to personality, intellect and connection rather than sex/gender or outward appearance. - I can be a little socially awkward/shy at first, and am rubbish at small talk, but if we meet and click in real life I may well end up talking your ear off! - If your first message to me is ‘hey,’ ‘how’s your evening’ or something similar I’m unlikely to reply. I’m quite open, honest and direct, and appreciate those who are like-minded in their communication. I think the most interesting bits of life and connection with others lie in our quirks, differences, and vulnerabilities, which often leads to quite deep conversations. So, if that’s not your thing I’m probably not the girl for you! - I am a single mum with an 11 year old. Which is awesome, but it means my time is often taken up doing mum stuff, and I can’t always respond immediately to messages. I also run my own business, which can be a bit feast or famine. When going through a busy patch I may not have time to reply or even check messages on here! - I am a breast cancer survivor (8 years in ‘remission’) and have an auto-immune sleep disorder. This means I experience some fatigue from time-to-time, but I’m determined to not let it stop me living my best kinky life!

please don’t bother if you’re not single. I like intellect, wit and smarts. If it doesn’t tickle the brain- it’ll bore me fast.

New to this ☺️but having a great time exploring so far definitely more of a brat/princess/service sub. I love when my doms spoil me in all the right ways

I’m here to explore my desires, desires of others and to constantly learn more about kink, BDSM and people. Into Men and Women Connection excites me

Lookinb to explore bdsm, maybe my sub side a bit more. I have a bit of experience as a domme. I like to tie and be tied. I have always been into girls but have slowly developed liking men. So looking to explore the man side of bi. Also girls, I love to see you naked, I haven’t been let down in the past. spoil me, tease me, fuck me.

I’m someone who enjoys good conversations, genuine connections, and finding joy in the little things. I’m excited by new experiences, great food, laughter, and meeting someone who can make an ordinary day feel special. I’m here to explore something real getting to know each other, sharing experiences, and seeing where the connection takes us.

Bored corporate girly who needs some excitement in her life and loves attention FYI- I don’t live in Brisbane. i just don’t want to disclose my location.

im 38, have always had these desires that have never been fulfilled. full disclosure my partner is no longer interested in sex but we are together for the kids. I have never cum during sex before and after years of trying to gently instruct my partner on what I like, he wasnt interested. I want to be dominated by someone with experience. I want to be whipped. fucked, worshipped. ive never felt comfortable receiving head (ive had bad experiences in the past and i cant seem to get out of my head) but I love worshiping a mans cock.. I want to be used and fucked in the most delicious way possible. ive always had a desire to visit a sex club, not necessarily to do anything but to get a feel of the dynamics and see where things go from there however trust and getting to know each other first is a must. I need a mutual and clear communication on what we both want. and I have ***. if you think you are what im looking for please send me a message. please dont start the chat with explicit content. im looking for a dom sub dynamic built on mutual trust and understanding. connection is key

I'm a good girl S type looking for a D type who will make me follow through on my daily goals and larger life goals! As a late-diagnosed neurodivergent gal, I struggle with executive function like getting my daily cleaning and self-care tasks done around home, because I'm busy working and studying and caretaking, while I also spend time on hyperfixations/hobbies. I'm looking for a D/s dynamic that is online only - we will not meet up. Please only DM me if you genuinely enjoy using your power/control as a way to help your good little sub get their life back on track. ;) Also recently discovered I like being the pet in pet play dynamics, so that's something fun!

♡ BBW ♡ Not open to ONS, FWB or NSA ♡ Poly and have a nesting partner ♡ I value intelligence and articulation ♡ Hoping to happen across a man with Daddy energy that is emotionally available ♡ Hard no on *** for me I'm a uni student in a STEM degree, an *** lover, a reading enthusiast, lover of learning, advocate for the planet and wildlife, and a kinky girl with a lot of nerd. 😊

Hiya! I’m Ivory, I’m 28 ✨🏳️‍🌈🇦🇺 New year, same me! I’m just a little more curvier & navigating life as a chronically ill baddie..🙂‍↕️ aim of the game is friends, not looking for much else. simply not interested

femdomme goddess mistress hestara , looking for some living toys to play with i am only into submissive men, which is every man if they were honest with themselves

Hello, beautiful people! 🖤✨ I'm Kel, and I'm here to reconnect with the BDSM community, make some new friends, and share a little bit of life along the way. I'm an experienced submissive/brat and masochist, a confident, plus size (16–18), and a firm believer in embracing yourself exactly as you are. Curves, stretch marks, cellulite and all. ✨🦋 Just so we're clear, I'm not looking for a partner or a Dom. i'm here to connect with like-minded people, share stories and experiences, exchange knowledge, have a few laughs, and enjoy being part of a community where people can be themselves. No hidden agenda, no dating applications, and absolutely no auditioning for the role of my next partner. 😂 A few things I enjoy: 💜 Making genuine friendships 🖤 Gothic and alternative people — weird is wonderful! ⛓️ BDSM events and community gatherings 🌈 LGBTQ+ friendly spaces ✨ Good conversations, shared experiences and a healthy dose of dark humour Not my cup of tea: 🚫 Married people or couples 🚫 Poly arrangements 🚫 Casual hookups or one-night stands 🚫 if you're Under 30. I'm always happy to meet people who are open-minded, respectful and comfortable in their own skin. Whether you've got years of experience or stories to share, I'm here for the conversations, the laughs and the connections that don't need to come with romantic expectations. Come as you are, be respectful, and bring a little personality. ✨️

I'm shy to start with, but once that layer sheds I'm a cheeky brat who loves to see how people respond to "make me" 🤭 I appreciate it when people want to talk to me like a human being to start off with because, well, I am one.. I have too many bdsm interests to list here! They usually depend on my mood, the day, and my emotional state. I'm not keen on vanilla, but I'm also not looking for 24/7 bdsm roles either, unless one particularly strikes my fancy with the right person. I have 2 uncommon fetishes - care to guess? Here are the clues: 1. I can hear it 2. It can feel me

just a bit of a bunny princess looking for some exploring mostly just like posting fantasies and lurking add my *** ***

I have a dual nature: I can be incredibly sweet, but I’m also very strict. Into pegging, impact play (caning/flogging), and slapping. I love integrating power dynamics into daily life and enjoy being served by a sub. There’s much more to discover if you’re the right one.

looking for kisses and cuddles xx whisper dirty things in my ear and make sexy promises for later. xx

Hey there.... recently released from long term m contract, wanting to explore my kinkier side. Fairly limited experience in the heavier side but keen to at least see what's out there. Looking for guidance and exploration.

completely new to this! bf is a cuck and wants me to have no strings attached fun. not looking to date specifically but meet in public preferred

Lesbian = women only switch, heavy sub leaning new to this app, have some experience with kink. I just want to explore x if you are a man, the only interest I have is being a ***me no face pics due to work but happy to send some once we match