Bisexual

Questions answered on bisexuality

What is the difference between being bisexual and pansexual?

If you're Bi and in a LTR with someone of the opposite sex, does it make you straight?

Questions answered on bisexuality

There's a common misconception that the word 'bisexual' means 'someone who is attracted to the two binary genders', but this isn't really the case; generally, the word means (and is used to mean) 'attracted to people of my gender and people not of my gender'. As such, it can have broadly the same meaning as 'pansexual' - and the two terms are increasingly often used interchangeably by people to whom both can apply. Whichever you prefer, it's absolutely vital to remember that bisexuals aren't on the fence, waiting to choose or 50/50 - they're simply capable of being attracted to people of all and any genders.

What is bisexuality?

Simply put, it is being attracted to both men and women equally or you may like one gender more than the other. There are no hard and fast rules about it at all!

What is the difference between being bisexual and pansexual?

Pansexual is when a person is attracted to people of all different gender identities as opposed to just being attracted to men and women in a binary way. If you're attracted to more than just men and women you are more likely to be pansexual but in the end it's totally up to you to decide.

How do you know if you’re bisexual?

If you are attracted to both males and females, that's a good indication. You may prefer one over the other, but that's okay. If you’re also attracted to other genders, such as genderfluid, genderqueer and trans, you're likely to be pansexual.

If you're Bi and in a LTR with someone of the opposite sex, does it make you straight?

No, just because you have committed to being with one person, it doesn't change your gender identity. That is up to you. If you identify as bisexual, you are that no matter who you are partners with.

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Men who are into gay men

Traditionally, the term 'gay' refers to people who identify as men who date, sleep with and love only other people who also identify as men. Over the years, however, more and more people on the LGBT+ spectrum came to identify with the term; people of many gender identities and sexual orientations sometimes use it to describe themselves now. The controversy surrounding gayness has mostly to do with the fact that cis gay men are seen and portrayed very differently to many other LGBT+ people - and often wind up as the recipients of a huge amount of the acceptance, understanding, attention and publicity afforded to this group as a whole.

Not even 'straight' is cut and dried

Sexuality is a spectrum, and there's more than one way of being straight. It's true that people who identify this way are in general attracted only to people of a different gender to them - but that can cover a lot of bases! There are more than two genders, after all; there are people who identify as straight who are attracted to others of any gender other than their own. Some straight people are attracted primarily to gender identity, and have relationships with trans partners, while other may find that they seem only to be attracted to cisgendered people. Not even 'straight' is a cut and dried sexuality - never forget that humans are complex, and so therefore are the words they use to describe themselves!

For women into women

Like all of the words people use to describe their identities, different people use the term 'lesbian' in different ways -but it's pretty much universal that lesbians identify as women, and have relationships only with other people who also do. Lesbians are, therefore 'monosexual', which means 'attracted to only one gender'. Not all women who are only attracted to women describe themselves as being lesbians, though - some prefer to use 'gay', 'queer' or other terms, for either personal or political reasons. It's always a good idea to ask someone how they self-identify before assuming, no matter how obvious you think they're supposed identity is.