Caregiver / little

Find out a little about littles and caregivers

Is Caregiver / little the same as AB/DL?

Find out a little about littles and caregivers

CG/l stands for 'Caregiver / little', and is a gender-neutral catch-all term for many of the relationship dynamics found under a certain portion of the ageplay umbrella. Perhaps the most widely discussed of these dynamics is DD/lg (Daddy Dom/little girl), but all possible variations exist and identifying as a caregiver or a little is not bound by sexual orientation or gender identity!

Some people enjoy incorporating the accoutrements of being 'little' into their play, such as pacifiers or colouring books or childlike clothing. Others simply enjoy the dynamic and fantasy, without wanting so much to express their littleness outwardly.

CG/l sometimes comes alongside AB/DL, but there are significant differences between the two communities and the fetishes are not quite the same thing!

What is Caregiver / little?

Caregiver/little (or CG/l) is a gender neutral catch all for a specific area of age play where one partner plays the ‘adult’ role and another takes on the role of being child-like. There’s lots of variations of roles within this group and it can overlap with other fetishes like AB/DL for example.

How do I know if I’m into CG/l?

As a type of D/s relationship that focuses on the top being caring and guiding in a parental type role and the bottom being childlike, possibly enjoying activities such as colouring in or playing make believe. If any of this seems attractive to you, it might be you have an interest in Caregiver / little fetish lifestyle.

Is CG/l legal?

Completely. Caregiver / little relationships are between consenting adults who agree what is and isn’t okay in advance. There are no actual blood relatives involved. It is all about role play which is perfectly legal and acceptable.

Is Caregiver / little the same as AB/DL?

Adult Baby/Diaper Lover is a kind of age play, as is Caregiver / little but that is where the similarities end. Some people may well be into both kinks, but they are not the same.

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