Ximena Posted September 4, 2018 Hi, i m fairly new to this whole bdsm thing, I recently met my partner not so long ago. After a nerve wrecking moment of confiding with my parents about my lesbian relationship they agreed to let me move 3300 mi away from home to be with my partner. At first i did not know that she was into pain and submisions. Our romantic relationship took a huge turn 2 months after moving in with her, She wanted to handcuffed me and hit me with her feet and stuffs, but i couldnt get on with it. i told her that i would no loger do those stuffs. She told me that she gets a thrill from those acts and that we should switch roles, we agreed as long as i was not the one being abused. Regularly she would ask me to replicate things that she saw on the net. but lately things has relly been extreme.and im scared that she might hurt herself badly one day. We started with light stuffs like spanking and forced orgasm while she is bound, but lately she wants more. she has gotten to the point that she has persuade me to whip her with some sort of mechanical belt until it gets bloody and even bought a taser for me to use on her. I never knew the term bdsm until i asked someone on facebook about this kind of activity where someone purposefully hurt themselvse or ask someone to beat them or tazed tem for sexuall pleasures. In my home town its a taboo as everybody i speak to tells me that this is new to them and that my partner must have ome psychologigal issues. Are there a way out of this life? I made this account just to post this one question asking for help as you guys are more well versed than me. A small info about my partner is that she is in her mid 30s, mature and have a decent job. But she has a really extreme fetish.