Cum Swallowing

For all cum swallowing lovers

Will cum swallowing make me put on weight?

Am I a bad sub if I don’t swallow at the end of a blowjob?

For all cum swallowing lovers

By and large, the people on the recieving end of a blow job prefer their partner to swallow their semen. This isn't a universal truth, of course - pretty much nothing is! But it's a solid rule of thumb in almost all cases. Plenty of blow-job-givers love the act of swallowing as much as the other side of the equation enjoys watching it, and for some - particularly submissives in BDSM-style relationships it can be a fantasy and a huge turn-on.

If your partner doesn't like the idea, though, you mustn't press the issue, there are loads of valid reasons not to want to swallow someone's ejaculate, and just not feeling into it is absolutely one of them! It's possible to learn how to enjoy it if it's something they'd like to be able to do, but there's absolutely no reason anybody should feel obliged to try if they're just not into it.

How can I make my cum taste better?

There are several things you can do to make your cum taste better. Avoiding smoking, eating lots of red meat and sulphurous foods (like broccoli and cauliflower), drinking alcohol and caffeine in large amounts. You can also make sure you drink plenty of water, eat naturally sugary fruits such as plums, pineapple and kiwis. Also eating cranberries can help make your cum taste sweeter.

Is it safe to swallow cum?

It is, generally, though some Sexually Transmitted Infections can be transferred via oral sex, so be sure your partner is clean before swallowing their ejaculate.

Will cum swallowing make me put on weight?

Not at all, you’re consuming only 5-25 calories so don’t worry, you can keep cum swallowing to your heart’s content.

Am I a bad sub if I don’t swallow at the end of a blowjob?

No, not at all. Everyone has their personal preferences and if you don’t like cum swallowing that’s okay. Anyone who tries to guilt you into doing it is being manipulative. A good Dom will respect your boundaries.

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