Cunnilingus

All you need to know about cunnilingus

What are the best tips for giving cunnilingus?

Is cunnilingus pleasurable for the giver?

All you need to know about cunnilingus

Ding ding, going down! Cunnilingus is the technical term for giving oral sex to a woman or any person with a vulva in fact. Oral sex is not talking about sex, no, it’s using your mouth to turn the other person on by licking, sucking and even biting. It’s not dirty talk, though you can combine the two as long as you don’t talk with your mouthful.

It’s a sex act that doesn’t have to include penetration, which is great for anyone who isn’t a fan of PIV sex or just wants to change things up. It’s very intimate and some people absolutely love it where other people find it a complete turn off. If the idea of going down gets you excited, add cunnilingus to your fetish list on feitsh.com then look for others who love it too.

What does cunnilingus mean?

The dictionary definition says it is stimulation of female genitalia using the tongue and lips. However, it isn’t just that. Any person who has a vulva can enjoy receiving cunnilingus, even when they don’t identify as female. Also you can get your, nose, teeth and fingers involved with oral sex too, if your partner finds it pleasurable.

Do women like cunnilingus?

As with all things, you can’t make a sweeping statement here. Some people with vulvas really enjoy receiving cunnilingus and some like to give oral sex. It is very personal to the person involved. Cunnilingus can be a great experience but it needs a lot of communication between partners to work. Not everyone likes the same kinds of stimuli.

What are the best tips for giving cunnilingus?

Communication. Before you even get to the going down, talk about what your partner enjoys. Check that your partner would like cunnilingus before trying it out and if oral sex is wanted, ask what you should be doing. For example, some people like focused attention to their clit, others don’t. Don’t expect the vulva to look exactly like the vulvas you’ve seen in porn. People have very different looking genitals. They may have lots of pubic hair, their labia may be prominent or short, plump or thin. You might be able to see the clit easily or it might be more hidden away. Don’t worry, keep communicating with your partner about what feels good for them.

Is cunnilingus pleasurable for the giver?

It certainly should be. No one should ever feel like they’re being made to do something. If you’re not finding pleasure in giving cunnilingus, don’t do it. If you’re not sure if you’ll like it, think about what you’ll be doing to your partner. How close you’ll be to their reactions, how you’ll be able to taste and feel their arousal. If that sounds hot, then go for it. Cunnilingus should be fun for all people involved!

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